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| Author: | killerwolf [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 9:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
My sticking point for some reason seems to be that girls are running after we have sex once or twice. The easy answer would be that I'm not good in bed but I seriously doubt thats the answer. This has happened like 5 times in the past 8 months since I broke up with my last gf. Some of the excuses have been "I don't have time to get involved cause of family problems" or "didn't want to keep cheating on her bf". The latest one said" she was confused because I was so nice and polite and treated her good and she didn't know how to deal with that so is reluctant to spend more time with me". However all of these girls had admittedly questioned me with things like "I just don't understand what you see in me" or "Your so good looking and great I don't know why someone like you would want to date me" even been called the "perfect guy", only to never see her again. WTF? I can only guess that these girls believe I'm out of their league and are unwilling to get too involved with me because they believe I will eventually break their heart when I figure it out. Or don't want to make the investment of time and energy it will take to keep me. Perhaps I'm picking girls with low self esteem or I'm devaluing them too much to feel good enough for something serious? Is it possible that I'm showing too much value? I have never made mention of establishing anything serious or put on too much pressure with any of these girls other than a casual hang out and get to know each other, so I don't know why they're freaking out. 1 girl who "didn't have time to get involved because of personal issues", I just on facebook has a new bf (overweight and not as attractive as me). Another who had a bf is recently single and we still talk but isn't trying to get with me again. Kinda eating at my confidence. What do you guys think? How do I fix this obvious hole in my game? |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
The answer is that we live in a dying society. In a dying society, this is how girls behave. Go scout my posts on this forum to find out more. And then I don't mean my posts of 1 or 2 sentences where I stomp down on somebody or give a quick pointer, but I mean the more substantial ones where I reflect upon the more intellectual aspects of game and the experience of romance and sexuality nowadays. |
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| Author: | jrich929 [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 7:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Found this and wish I can offer some sound advice. However I seem to be suffering from the same problem. I have no problem getting them to bed but keeping them is an issue. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Feb 02, 2014 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Quote: "...I don't know why someone like you would want to date me..."
You belong to the very rare demographic of men that girls just wanna fuck and have no relationship with whatsoever. There are several scientific studies on this. You gotta live with it OR...Fuck them REALLY good and don't be needy like asking these girls out on a date. Just ask them out to fuck. No more. No less. Likewise, when these girls are ovulating and they give you booty calls, just say ok and fuck them good again. No drama. Just eat pussies. Lick assholes. And bang those cervixes. Eventually, these girls become regulars if you're really awesome in bed. |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 10:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
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Likewise, when these girls are ovulating and they give you booty calls, just say ok and fuck them good again. No drama. Just eat pussies. Lick assholes.
Going from nothing POOF to sex. Lesson? The art of seduction is not to engage in seduction. Okay. Now we return from law of the jungle to human life. Truth is, there is a taboo on meeting up to have sex with no romance-drama between the meeting and the sex. At least for women; they teach themselves to behave classy and "have standards". This romance drama is what society calls "date". It means that you can't cold-call a booty call. Unless you go to a brothel. Well, you could cold-call a booty call. If you make 8200 calls. This time is better spent working as a farm hand and going with that money to the brothel if all you want is to "lick assholes". |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 12:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Quote: Well, you could cold-call a booty call. If you make 8200 calls.
The OP already fucked several girls who don't want any relationship with him. No cold call needed. All that the OP has to do is to bang those girls well and NOT be needy so when they're horny again and want a good fuck, OP is just right there where he should be.
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| Author: | ClavoARG [ Tue Feb 11, 2014 2:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Quote: Quote: "...I don't know why someone like you would want to date me..."
You belong to the very rare demographic of men that girls just wanna fuck and have no relationship with whatsoever. There are several scientific studies on this. You gotta live with it OR...Fuck them REALLY good and don't be needy like asking these girls out on a date. Just ask them out to fuck. No more. No less. Likewise, when these girls are ovulating and they give you booty calls, just say ok and fuck them good again. No drama. Just eat pussies. Lick assholes. And bang those cervixes. Eventually, these girls become regulars if you're really awesome in bed. Is like girls have a "this guy for fuck and this guy for a relationship" In some cases i has 2 girls that was only for fuck for more than a year, some minor date (drinks) and then to fuck, i has that routine every 15 days. Other girls just fuck with me 2 or 3 times then flakes (maybe because i started to fell involved and lose my "role"?) |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 3:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Dabura, you have a point. By rejecting and being reluctant and being "let's just have sex without emotions involved" you demonstrate superior genetic value. This is why "scumbags" and "gangstahs" from lowest ranks of society often fuck white middle class women. Even though women know rationally these men are no good, their lizard brain pretty much dictates that they will follow them. After all they are hard-wired to crave that which is just beyond their reach. Conversely, once they have you, (as you say "I 'accidentally' demonstrate my emotional attachment and appreciation") they flake. Why? Because that's when they have what they can have. They want what they cannot have. Instinctively they always want to make a +1 trade up the genetic ladder. Even if this means going with Mumet the cutpurse above Leonard the software engineer. With other words men with serious intentions have to repress their true feelings whereas "act rough streetlife thugs" get all the bang. On a deeper level, Dabura, you point to something of greater importance here: how can stable relationships with emotional attachment flourish in a society where women just fuck 'n flake? We are talking about the cornerstone of civilization here. After all, Man is not a solitary animal like cats who come together to mate and live solitary beyond that. This lizard-brain effect is what old societies and ancient philosophers understood. And why cultural conservative traditions imbued women with a strong sense of care, support and family-mindedness. However we are now destroying this with affirmative action and "if it feels good, it must be good" hedonism. |
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| Author: | SE23 [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Quote: Dabura,
you have a point. By rejecting and being reluctant and being "let's just have sex without emotions involved" you demonstrate superior genetic value. This is why "scumbags" and "gangstahs" from lowest ranks of society often fuck white middle class women. Even though women know rationally these men are no good, their lizard brain pretty much dictates that they will follow them. After all they are hard-wired to crave that which is just beyond their reach. Conversely, once they have you, (as you say "I 'accidentally' demonstrate my emotional attachment and appreciation") they flake. Why? Because that's when they have what they can have. They want what they cannot have. Instinctively they always want to make a +1 trade up the genetic ladder. Even if this means going with Mumet the cutpurse above Leonard the software engineer. With other words men with serious intentions have to repress their true feelings whereas "act rough streetlife thugs" get all the bang. On a deeper level, Dabura, you point to something of greater importance here: how can stable relationships with emotional attachment flourish in a society where women just fuck 'n flake? We are talking about the cornerstone of civilization here. After all, Man is not a solitary animal like cats who come together to mate and live solitary beyond that. This lizard-brain effect is what old societies and ancient philosophers understood. And why cultural conservative traditions imbued women with a strong sense of care, support and family-mindedness. However we are now destroying this with affirmative action and "if it feels good, it must be good" hedonism. Agreed, restrictions and customs placed on people's sexuality where there for a reason. Women are hypergamous, they will go for the "Alphas". Traditional marriage before the no fault divorce laws came into play, secured your ordinary average "beta" male have a chance of hitting the evolutionary jackpot. Whenever a society began to openly embrace polygamy, then it's own collapse followed swiftly after. We are talking about raw biology and behavioural economics, none of this cushy "Oh you will find love one day" rhetoric, which even women barely believe nowadays. Traditional marriage was the cornerstone of Western civilisation, because it rewarded men led responsible and productive lives. If your average joe worked his way up in a career that was a service to his community and country, he would be pretty much guaranteed to have a wife to raise a family with. Statistics show that married men are by far the most hardest workers and productive in any society. There was a regression after divorce became commonplace, and women were encouraged to compete and act like a man in the "man's world". . Before long the married man became a ridiculed figure, treated with contempt, and people wonder why men in their droves are now avoiding marriage. Women don't desire "love" they desire the emotional roller coaster which the bad boy could give them. To be fucked rigorously by the high status male who commits the most dominating act, of leaving her quivering on the bed with his essence all over her. Average men no longer have any unique status or value, because they can't dominate financially, socially, or personally; as it's the average man who swallows political correctness up. We have gone back to the rules of the jungle now in the West. Already our interpersonal relationships and families are beginning to resemble the tribal landscape of the deepest depths of Africa. Where "it takes a village to raise a family" - Hilary Clinton. Now lets be objective and see how far that has helped their civilisation progress. |
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| Author: | jrich929 [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls Are Reluctant To Continue Dating After Sex |
Just wanted to bump this to see if anyone has any mor color on this topic. Seems to happen to me alot. I also f-close real quick (1-3 dates) and am wondering if that has anything to do with it. Also all the women Ive been banging I meet online. |
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