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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Mon Dec 17, 2012 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Frequent sexting dilemma
I'm frequently getting into situation where I find myself texting sexual things with girls, but hesitate whilst I'm trying to mention having sex with them. I got into this conversation the other day...


Me: You taught a little kid about drugs?! You monster! Haha :P xxx

Her: He didn't know what it meant haha xxxx

Me: You have sinned! You must be cleansed of your wrongdoings ;) xxx

Her: And how will that happen xxx (coming on to me now)

Me: I'm gonna bathe you in holy water ;) xxx


Looking back I think I should've just opted for saying something like "Don't worry babes, I'll screw the badness of your soul ;)" or something like that... it's rather feeble that I'm beating around the bush for ages expecting her to jump into mentioning sex...

Any advice?

Ninja
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Mon Dec 17, 2012 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Frequent sexting dilemma
Two things:

1) Abundance mentality - aka there's plenty of fish in the sea, so don't worry about losing this one

2) Outcome independence - aka DGAF (don't give a fuck) stop thinking about the what if's and pull the trigger

If you know she is coming on to you then you have nothing to lose. I wouldn't go as far as say, screw the badness out of your soul but maybe something right up that alley that has a little more "tease" in it. Like, "It's too late you're already such a naughty girl". Most importantly don't just use sexting to sext. You need to setup a time to meet or go on a date. So always have the end goal in mind.
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Mon Dec 17, 2012 6:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Frequent sexting dilemma
This girl in question is interested in me, but haven't met up for a date yet... although I have set one up :)
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I wouldn't go as far as say, screw the badness out of your soul but maybe something right up that alley that has a little more "tease" in it.
I suppose this would be good for hooking her in and engaging her emotions until we meet up, which I have been doing... but say if your end goal was getting her into bed? You would need to be direct about your sexual intent, right? That way she would know that you mean business and you're not phased by the possibility of fucking her. At least that's what I think is appropriate :/

Also, this girl has a boyfriend. Her relationship is failing and personally I think he's cheated on her. I've told her what I think, but I reckon she doesn't have the will to break up with him. I usually avoid mentioning her boyfriend or anything of the sort so it doesn't engage her logical mind, instead using game to engage her emotional mind.

Anything I should know?
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