I am dating two girls and one of them is giving me trouble by locking herself up emotionally. I have been making progress and see her letting guard down little by little but I know there must be a way to speed up the process.

She doesn't like being vulnerable and is doing the age old locking her heart up and protecting herself from getting hurt. I actually like this girl, she is a quality girl and she fulfills my needs and i have had no complaints so far. She has already told me that she doesnt like the idea of liking someone and I was aware of that even before she told me(through text of course lol).

The real problem is that we both have the same style. I do the same thing. However, I am willing to give it a shot and i am trying to have a quality relationship. Last time I let my guard down with a girl that was not right for me and I ended up getting hurt, but I didn't screen properly that time. This time, I am choosing who to love and not just falling in love.

We are going on break for the month because we are in college and winter break is coming up. I thought of reading up on NLP or an interpersonal communications book in the meantime. Or something. I plan on researching. I don't know at this point.

Any tips?

Don't need to wait for answer. The answer is either, fuck her. Or it it's fuck her much harder next time.