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| Author: | purplem [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 4:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Want to Make this a LTR |
I have one girl who I just met two nights ago, didn't even k close or anything (because I hooked up with another girl that night), but got her number. Next night we hung out and bam yup. f-close She's ridiculously attracted. Texting me every four hours (I've never started a convo, always her). Even got 3 pics (very, very good ones) without even asking. She moved to a new school, so I don't think it is that she is really easy or anything, just really wants it My question is. How can I not text her all day, but keep the attraction? I've already played the phone battery died thing, and wait 3-5 hours before responding anyway. But I'm getting bored of just keep texting flirty things about sex all day non stop. |
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| Author: | -enjoi- [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 5:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Want to Make this a LTR |
You won't lose attraction if you don't text her right away. My girlfriend was the same way after we hooked up and it lasted about two weeks. I just kept texting her an hour or so after she'd text me. She asked me about it once and I explained that I don't check my phone while I'm with other people because it's rude to the group I'm with. She never bugged me about it, nor does she expect a response right away anymore unless it's something urgent. Anyway, good to see another Torontonian online. |
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| Author: | purplem [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 1:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Want to Make this a LTR |
It's funny, if I don't reply right away she'll send another text. I wanted two hours once and got 4 texts one time haha. But, I've screwed this up before many times and want to make sure I get it right. Even if we're just texting everyday, it sets it up to be relationships with all the constant contact, so that's my main worry. So you think as long as I can limit contact I'll be in a good position for a non-exclusive relationship? |
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| Author: | -enjoi- [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 3:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Want to Make this a LTR |
I'll tackle this from the point of view that all you want out of this is to keep the attraction. If that's all you want then texting her less shouldn't make her loose that. I mean, hell, if she's really insecure then yea, she could make up a ton of thoughts in her head why you're not texting back and get overwhelmed. But in that case you'll never have an open-type relationship with this girl. |
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