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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 3:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
Maybe I'm losing a step in my game. But lately at the bar instead of girls going w my flow(Im flirty) they have been asking me boring questions or qualifying questions that I respond two that lead to nothing. Two questions girls have been asking me are '' what's my story'' an even a more personal note '' what i do for a living'' im use to girls going w my flow complimenting me on my style an tattoos and shaved head or laughing at my goofball attitude. |
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| Author: | raymunds02 [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 6:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
is it the girls are too tricky? |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 9:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
Bullshit them or qualify them back, or just ignore it. 1 her:"What's your job? " "I am an empleyee of the month at mcdonalds, I fed the most fat people with bigMacs only working as a part-time job. We can go and grab some milkshake and get crazy " 2 you:"What is your job?" |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 1:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
+1 NikAFC Her: "What do you do?" Me: "I work with burnt orphans" Her: "Oh...really...Where at?" Me: "The Burnt Orphan Foundation." Her: "O...k...What do yo do there?" Me: "I change their bandages and dry their tears. They are in a lot of pain from the burns, and they cry a lot because they don't have parents, as you can probably imagine." Her: "Wuaw???" Me: "No I'm just fucking with you. I work with computers. What do you do?" |
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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 3:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
Maybe it's my appearance or how I'm coming off to them, butThe girls lately have been firing those questions at me a lot lately!!I got kinda of a bad boy look but i have a good paying job and not a low life however maybe I'm giving them the wrong impression. I guess I'm just use to them playing '' my game and routine '' because usually im the one in control. Thanks for the examples anymore are welcome. |
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| Author: | pokerartist [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 10:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
+1 NikAFC, +1 puaninja If all else fails, just change the topic in a rapid way. If you do it in dominat way she'll follow immediately. It is good as a general rule as women you meet do say bullshit, they are not the perfect people. Maybe its shit testing but also it may be anxiety or simply lack of opinion or personality. What I always say to myself is that you cannot control what somenoe else will say or do. But you can control waht you say or do and ALSO how you will respond to what others say or do. Just an AFC studying pick-up. Peace. |
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| Author: | White Lion [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 11:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
A question is either an IOI or an IOI in the form of a test. If she asks you a question to be social, its an IOI because she stuck around. If its a test question, its her saying she likes you but is not sure. If you are past the whole ball bust phase, she is saying she wants to slow down and get to know you, because she is attracted. Badboy's method uses such questions to know when to go into rapport. If you go into field a LOT with no structural method for long you find all girls do this if you build too much attraction, as in wasted time in attraction and did not qualify or do normal rapport stuff, or even worse, did not escalate with touching. It is a good sign no matter how you look at it, she wants to know more about you, no matter how you slice it. Let calibration be your tool, if you have no attraction evident, its a shit test. If she looks into you, its her way of saying slow down the process so she can get comfort with you, and have the happy time. |
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| Author: | Psych3r [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 6:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
when a girl asks me what I do, I ask them to guess. If they come backwith a stupidanswer as a shit test, then i just laugh at them and neg them with body language or turn to another girl in the set. If Ilike their answer I just go with it and fuck with thema little. I dont ever reveal what iactualy do until 'ive had the chance to talk about all the various hobbi es and interests i have, and then its casually dropped in. I never check for their reaction to my career because i could care less if they approve or not. also, as was stated above any genuine question, shit test or not is an IoI so treat it like one and use it as leverage to attempt an minor escalation immediately. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 11:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
"What do you do/study?" "Take a wild guess." |
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| Author: | J4ZZ [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 5:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
When this sort of thing happens to me I like to play with it a little. If we haven't been talking for long I will NEVER answer the question. I say something like: "do you know how many times a good looking guy like myself gets asked that question" or "seriously if you are trying to pick me up you have got to come up with a better line than that" or "I bet you ask that to all the guys". These lines are said with a cheeky smile or playfully so that she doesn't think I am avoiding the questions. If she is asking this after we have talked for a while and it seems she is showing genuine interest in me and not just trying to qualify, then I give her a straight answer (obviously try to make it sound more interesting than reality). Just some thoughts, hope it helps! |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Dec 15, 2012 7:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
NikAfc is right. Don't qualify yourself to woman until after they are attracted and then only halfway. Make them jump through your hoops not theirs. For "Whats your story" The deserves a bullshit, blow-off response, ive gotten that exact question before and goofed it before learning game. All girls will eventually ask about your job and what you do, have some prepared material for that, no excuse for not being completely prepared for the five or so questions all woman are going to ask every time you get in rapport. |
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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Fri Jan 25, 2013 6:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
Lol at jazz. Good ones |
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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Fri Jan 25, 2013 8:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Women trying to qualify me? Need help |
Lol at jazz. Good ones |
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