I think you should get some friends first. Get out of the house, go to the gym, become a member of a sports group or a drama group or whatever. Meet some people there and try to make friends.
I used to have only a few, or, maybe, no friends because I wasn't really sure how to make friends and how to become one. I play ice hockey and I thought meeting people a couple of times a week is the same as being friends. Well, it isn't and I only went out when my ice hockey club, my study association, etc. planned something.
Friends means that you also regularly hang out, that you are there for them when they need you. Invite some people over to your house to drink some beer or liquor and watch a game or movie or just have fun. When they also invite you and when you regularly hang out with them, then they'll also want to go out with you. It works best when you notice that somebody else is new in town cause they'll be eager to hang out with you.
Also, you don't necessarily need a wingman, but going to a bar or club alone looks a little bit weird, in my opinion. It definitely feels weird to me, so I try to avoid such situations. When you're around people then girls will think that you're a social person and then you can still go up to them on your own.
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