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| Author: | Direct [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 5:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Hook-Up vs Relationship |
Hey guys and thanks in advance for any comments. This is most probably because of my upbringing. When there is a girl I am attracted to I always automatically revert to trying to be a gentleman/behaving chivalrous even if it is a girl that I only want to sleep with. I know my IOIs but I guess I don't really have a clue when it comes to distinguishing between when a girl wants a relationship or just sex, or perhaps it is my job to lead to one way or another? If so, what are some key differences that I need to keep in mind in terms of how I conduct myself? Also, perhaps another product of my upbringing I always feel really, really bad if I simply hook up and leave it at that, like if I am the worst person in the world. Why am I such a vuh-J-J? |
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| Author: | TRO [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 7:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hook-Up vs Relationship |
I'm like that too, I think its just part of you. No big deal. Do you feel bad just hooking up because you felt like you done something wrong to the girl, or because you want more with the girl? I think your presumptions about what a girl wants will go away with time. You are thinking too far ahead. |
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| Author: | Direct [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 1:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hook-Up vs Relationship |
I feel bad because I feel like I've done something wrong to that girl. Did you do anything to get over it? The thing is I don't really want to totally wrong someone just to get laid which is why you won't catch me using future state projection to overcome LRM. How can I tell the difference or steer our interactions into that way? |
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