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| Author: | Indigo9 [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
Hey guys, I'm 23 just dropped out of my business degree and looking to start a new fulfilling career in electronic engineering. In essence, I'll start age 24 with a new degree and graduate at 27. I've had a consistent education scoring well in Mathematics and I've read all the main books regarding The Game, MM, Pual Janka, Jugglar, Stephen Nash which got me into a relationship in a relationship at 19, but that was when I was a ambitious teenager, heading off to uni, it helped I looked good too. I'm learning to trade in the stock market as a source of income and looking to set up a business this year at 24, so there are resources there and potential, but the degree is the biggie to commit anything long term to a male. SO: I'm ambitious, I'm intelligent, I have good convo and social skills, I'm grounded with good qualities, I can cook, I travel with my family once a year. AS stated, the degree seems to be the biggie with females who want relationships. I know women look for alpha signs such as behaviour and subcommunications also I'm fairly comfortable going up to a beautiful women and saying my stuff. HOWEVER: Now, I feel women of the same age (23) who are starting their careers may not think I'm equal and females who are younger (19) are starting uni may look down on me. I believe older women than me (2-3 years older) may want security. I'm feeling really bad. WHAT are my chances of attracting and being in a sold relationship with same age, younger and older women based on my situation? Advice appreciated, Indigo |
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| Author: | AFC AzA [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 9:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
shit happens. at least your graduating. things could have been worse. |
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| Author: | pokerartist [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 10:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
Quote: Now, I feel women of the same age (23) who are starting their careers may not think I'm equal and females who are younger (19) are starting uni may look down on me. I believe older women than me (2-3 years older) may want security. I'm feeling really bad. You dont have to be SOMEONE to get a girl. All you have to offer is your honest an dominant self and just have a good time with her so as to please yourself and her. Do not fall in the modern-society-trap that the man has to be super succesfull to get laid with beautiful women. If you're thinking like this you can not be dominant and express your self. And to quote Vin DiCarlo " dont try to be dominant, act as if you are already dominant". Best advice: Read DiCarlo's Attraction Code Feel it helps. Peace. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
You can't worry about what other people think or things that are out of your control. If you are already in school I don't see why not having a degree would be a big deal. I mean you are planning on getting it, right? You have developed a self-limiting belief system and you are using that to rationalize negative preconceptions that you have about reality. |
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| Author: | pokerartist [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 7:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
Quote: You can't worry about what other people think or things that are out of your control. If you are already in school I don't see why not having a degree would be a big deal. I mean you are planning on getting it, right? You have developed a self-limiting belief system and you are using that to rationalize negative preconceptions that you have about reality.
Self-limiting belief system: Very accurate
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| Author: | Indigo9 [ Sun Dec 16, 2012 5:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
Thanks for all the response guys. I guess I just got to go out there and express my authentic self. |
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| Author: | P.Noble [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 3:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Graduating uni at 27, feel insecure, advice appreciated |
I agree with some of th comments above and would say this: To a girl it doesn't really matter where you are in life, it's about your AMBITION and where you're going. The important thing is to show that you want to improve yourself but this doesn't necessarily mean in your career. I've dated girls in much more lucrative careers, who are on a much higher paygrade than me and they've known it, but still it didn't put them off me. I agree with Pokerartist, it's only the social programming that's thrown doubt in your mind. Don't judge yourself on your career but who you are as complete person. Remember: Ambition and career is only one small part of what makes an attractive man. As long as you differentiate yourself from other men out there by being confident, dominant, challenging and fun, etc you'll be fine. |
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