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| Author: | snowdy [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Her flaking made me to freeze out, but how to proceed? |
I've known this girl about 4 months. First month went great before she ended it. I had to make a 2 months of no contact thing. The past month we've been in contact again, and I've f'closed her few times. Recently when I asked her via text it went like this: Me: Hey i'm coming over on weekend. You wanna hang out, go to restaurant maybe? Her: Ok! Cool Me: Yeah I know Her: Oh really? I gotta go to sleep on 01.00 4 hours later Her: Well it's not that exact How about if we take her with us to the restaurant Me: Oh, I just thought that it would be cool to hang out together. But bros before hoes Her: No No, ofcourse we hang out when you're here.. On my view, she's giving signals that she's not interested. #1 setting a time limits for our dates #2 taking her friend with her So, I freezed out and got few more texts from her Her: My friend could stay at home if you want.. You're so apathetic to answer my msg's What you guys would do? Should I push her some more maybe? Should I cancel the dates saying that I've already made some other plans (So I don't fall into her frame) Should I go to eat with both of them but making some time limits (I have better things to do) |
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| Author: | Blacksky [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Her flaking made me to freeze out, but how to proceed? |
This is what you do and i'm no expert but this is what I would do... I would say to her I was thinking just us two would go to dinner together and see what she says - and if she says no well bad luck at least you know where you stand with her and you can move on to another chick. Don;t let this one girl tear your world apart - show her that you are assertive and don;t be afraid to tell her what you want - females love assertiveness. |
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