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Her flaking made me to freeze out, but how to proceed?
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Author:  snowdy [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:27 am ]
Post subject:  Her flaking made me to freeze out, but how to proceed?

I've known this girl about 4 months. First month went great before she ended it. I had to make a 2 months of no contact thing. The past month we've been in contact again, and I've f'closed her few times.

Recently when I asked her via text it went like this:

Me: Hey i'm coming over on weekend. You wanna hang out, go to restaurant maybe?
Her: Ok! Cool :) I had to work the whole weekend :/
Me: Yeah I know 8) I had those plans for you when you'll finish your work :D (Obviously I didn't knew she had to work)
Her: Oh really? I gotta go to sleep on 01.00 :D

4 hours later

Her: Well it's not that exact ;) But my friend(she) would also need some things to do tomorrow.
How about if we take her with us to the restaurant
Me: Oh, I just thought that it would be cool to hang out together. But bros before hoes ;)
Her: No No, ofcourse we hang out when you're here..


On my view, she's giving signals that she's not interested.
#1 setting a time limits for our dates
#2 taking her friend with her

So, I freezed out and got few more texts from her
Her: My friend could stay at home if you want.. You're so apathetic to answer my msg's

What you guys would do? Should I push her some more maybe?
Should I cancel the dates saying that I've already made some other plans (So I don't fall into her frame)
Should I go to eat with both of them but making some time limits (I have better things to do)

Author:  Blacksky [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Her flaking made me to freeze out, but how to proceed?

This is what you do and i'm no expert but this is what I would do...

I would say to her I was thinking just us two would go to dinner together and see what she says - and if she says no well bad luck at least you know where you stand with her and you can move on to another chick.

Don;t let this one girl tear your world apart - show her that you are assertive and don;t be afraid to tell her what you want - females love assertiveness.

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