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| Author: | l3tsp1ckUp [ Mon Nov 12, 2012 11:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | serious midgame trouble |
alright guys, i was sitting one day thinking about how the hell i can get help with these troubles and my friend showed me the most sureal website PUA. I personally am a confident guy, i do have insecurities and get anxiety before i talk to a girl just like any other guy but thats not why im here. The reason im here is my midgame. i personally think i have good opening game and can get a girl interested in me fast. but the problem is that i always seem to get friendzoned with in 2 weeks.. im really nice to the girl and do flirt with her, and maybe my problem is that im being TO nice to them. can you guys help me out on how to stop being to nice to the girls and how to spit some real game without getting friendzoned.. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Nov 12, 2012 11:43 pm ] |
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That's not your middle game bro. Your sticking point is your end game. The opening is not an issue, that just gets you in the door. Your middle game is what gets you talking to them, building rapport, getting contact info, etc., which I think you are doing an okay job at. But where you are failing is with your endgame and closing. Well, I guess technically part of your problem is in your middle game, because you aren't building enough attraction. And obviously you are not seducing them at all, or you aren't doing it effectively. Even in my AFC days I quickly learned a rule for gaming women. Get physical early on. I can't stress that enough. It not only sets the precedent for what you want out of them, but it shows confidence and is very alpha. There is a natural progression in a pick up routine which involves attraction, kino, seduction, and a sexual experience of some kind. When you fail to do those things, it just dwindles down until the girl loses interest and friendzone's you or blows you off. |
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| Author: | l3tsp1ckUp [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 12:30 am ] |
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yeah i guess i kind of understand you but how do i show her that physical attraction early on without looking like im trying to hard ya know |
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| Author: | VietnameseProdigy [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 6:57 am ] |
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?? stop over thinking bro you get physical the moment you meet a girl. It doesn't mean you're a try hard. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 1:59 pm ] |
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If you do anything with confidence it won't look like you are trying too hard. It will just look like you are doing. |
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| Author: | Heartnet [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:59 pm ] |
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I think one of the big part of it, its that you didnt qualify the girl and the second part you probably dont do that much flirting/drama with them. If you actually write down or record an interaction you did with one of your pickup would be much more helpful then we guessing here. |
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| Author: | Heartnet [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:08 pm ] |
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here is also a couple good video on how to become what you call "bad boy" and being physical. |
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| Author: | Heartnet [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 4:10 pm ] |
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Hope its will help you. Cheers mate! |
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| Author: | l3tsp1ckUp [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 9:03 pm ] |
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you guys were all so much help, thanks! im just gonna be confident and not give a fuck about being to physical |
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| Author: | pokerartist [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 10:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: serious midgame trouble |
Also read 60yearsofchallenge's vibe escalation. Generally creating a sexual state that is transmitted to the girl. |
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