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Author:  Disceto [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 4:17 am ]
Post subject:  dealing with this hb8, need help with attraction
wo days ago, I went to a skating party at the arena, my buddy introduced me to a hb8 and i just asked where she was from; later on that night i was in the cafeteria and she smiled and said hi to me. So later on i decided to go back to skating i seen her and started to do the usual talk "her cousin was my best friend" was the main subject. Then i used alot of negs on her, i got allot of kino off of that, and i remember i said something to her funny and she slapped my ass i then said joking around "hey, woah, calm down, i barely know you lol". Then she started asking me if i used msn, facebook; etc... by the end i was basically playing hard to get with her / and using negs. The thing is we were having a really good connection and she compelety ignored my buddy and her friends and just skated and talked with me for 3hrs, yet when i ask her before i left "you got msn" she said "yeah" and gave me her msn; i knew it wasnt her real msn, which i found out the next day it wasnt.

Could this be a possible bitch shield or something? Did I do something wrong that she gave out a fake email address or something? Everytime there was a pause in the conversation, she would start one.

(Update) now thanks to my buddy she found out that i told him she was smokin hot, but she asked about me she thought "i wasnt into her"
Dance is coming up tommorow, so how should i take this approach, thanks.
Author:  EYE2EYE [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 5:26 am ]
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u shouldve asked for her number man. if shes skating with you for 3 hrs she definately expects something more from you than an email u know??

it seems to me liek there were a lot of IOI's just not the right closure. or maybe what it is , its that the negs got to her...

some girls when you tease them too much they take it personal... thats when they usually throw something at you out of their frustration to hold their own ground.. did she do anything like that???
Author:  Disceto [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 8:19 pm ]
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no she didnt do anything like that, she liked the negs though she was playing them on me too. but the next day she thought i wasnt into her; i would like to ask her out but i dont really know how to; i just dont want to go up to her and be like "i like you".. ya know; theres a dance tommorow i was thinking about trying something their.
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:53 pm ]
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Sounds to me like you've already got attraction. Bit of a shame she knows you like her though.

But be careful not to overuse the negs/C&F. I personally only use negs during the opener and maybe another one in A2 if she's smoking hot. Then it's exclusively C&F from there on in.

Take her through A3 - any routine would do there, try

'tell me something interesting about yourself. Matter of fact, tell me three interesting things about yourself, and make one of them a lie. Then I'll try to guess which one you made up. Then I'll do the same for you'.

It stacks nicely to 5 questions (man I love that synergy! two of my favourite routines!). Once I'm done with my favorite A3 routine, I use Mystery's gambit

'I gotta tell you, your first impression kinda sucked, but now that I've gotten to know you a bit you're absolutely incredible. I feel foolish for thinking otherwise'.

Then talk about yourself (introduce 2 of your strongest points and one really boring lie, like 'I love Xbox games' [we both know Xbox is awesome, but she'd probably disagree ;-) ]), do a bit of Comfort and try going for a k-close.

Good luck bro!
Author:  EYE2EYE [ Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:09 am ]
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^^^ way to do it
nice post G
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