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Author:  Sparkie [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 10:13 am ]
Post subject:  LJBF zone for 7 years.. Almost out of there need help!
See, part of me is saying this is serious "one-itis" and the other part of me is saying to keep trying and it'll happen.

There's a girl i've been into since school and we've always been close since i got the dreaded LJBF speech. However since going away to university and learning some game/ changing my look etc over the 3 years i've recently managed to escalate the relationship between us and shes interested in going on a date and not as just friends. However in the last few days she seems to have backed away and keeps changing the date etc and saying how she wouldn't like to lose me as a friend. However shes so intrigued by how much i've grown in confidence/ looks etc over the last 3 years.

I was so close to sealing this first date and I think once I actually K close this girl I don't think it will be a problem. But what shall I do? Keep trying to work the game or just leave her? The thing is all the girls i've sarged so far since learning game have not been relationship material but this girl is and i've never actually had a relationship in my home city, all my relationships where whilst away at uni where i reinvented myself.

If anyone has some advice i'd much appreciate it!
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: LJBF zone for 7 years.. Almost out of there need help!
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See, part of me is saying this is serious "one-itis" and the other part of me is saying to keep trying and it'll happen.
oneitis and I need to get her go hand in hand
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There's a girl i've been into since school and we've always been close since i got the dreaded LJBF speech. However since going away to university and learning some game/ changing my look etc over the 3 years i've recently managed to escalate the relationship between us and shes interested in going on a date and not as just friends. However in the last few days she seems to have backed away and keeps changing the date etc and saying how she wouldn't like to lose me as a friend. However shes so intrigued by how much i've grown in confidence/ looks etc over the last 3 years.
she's backing off, so how then can you create the logistics you want?, what sort of action do you suppose would bring her closer to the idea of hanging out with you?
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I was so close to sealing this first date and I think once I actually K close this girl I don't think it will be a problem. But what shall I do? Keep trying to work the game or just leave her? The thing is all the girls i've sarged so far since learning game have not been relationship material but this girl is and i've never actually had a relationship in my home city, all my relationships where whilst away at uni where i reinvented myself.
the underlined, and the underlined and bolded don't quite look too promising, how have you been escalating, why have you not just shown her with actions what you want to do with her and escalated physically?

think of a kiss like shaking hands, it is not sealing the deal to get a kiss if the deal is sex, a kiss is a kiss and isn't a big deal, most girls would kiss their best girlfriends if you just told them to and a little booze was involed, doesn't mean anything really, P into V is sealing the deal, you can make out with a girl pretty shortly after meeting her, you can get a girls phone number pretty much without even knowing her at all, both of these things do not = sex, you can do both of these things and get no where near P into V, and you can do neither of those things and accomplish P into V
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what shall I do?
what is your ideal situation? what do you want to do?
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The thing is all the girls i've sarged so far since learning game have not been relationship material but this girl is
what qualifies her as relationship material?
what dis-qualified the others?
Author:  Sparkie [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 10:20 pm ]
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Great way of thinking of it cheers! I think i'm going to initiate some sort of push pull and show that i'm not afraid to lose her, The plan is now to carry on sarging and experiencing daygame and who knows I might meet somebody better looking or more suited. This girl is by no means as much of a head turner compared to the girls mPUAs get and nearly caught myself saying "but she's..." ONE-ITIS.

Answering all these questions you've posed to me has opened my mind more into not tuning my game and then using it on only one girl which I have been doing. I ought to go out and actually be a pick up artist! Grow some balls haha
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