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Author:  Crix [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:43 pm ]
Post subject:  When she keeps comparing you to her boyfriend ?

So, long story short, Im best friends with a girl, YES A GIRL, I know thats a big no-no for some guys, but I find it that being friends with a few girls is actually quite good, as they can meet you with their friends and girls are usually better when you want to talk about emotions and stuff, then guys(speaking from experience right here),, so I either way,, me and this girl are best friends,, though we never actually talk about problems or discuss her bf or anything like that, which would actually indicate to me that I am deep in the friendzone( another sidenote also, while I was an AFC I tried to be with her since I had a oneitis on her, but she rejected me,,, but our friendshit got over it),,,either way, I changed A LOT in the meantime (that was more than 1 year ago),, and now she knows that I date a lot of other hot girls and she told me how much I changed and other shit,and there is a lot of flirting between us and kino(since I grew some balls since I got into pua):D,, my problem is, I rly wouldnt mind hooking up with her just for the fun of it, and having fun with her, but she sometimes compares me to her bf, and Im reallly not sure to take that as a good thing or a bad thing ?
And when I talk aobut the girls I date , she tends to dislike/hate them , A LOT("oh no this one is obviously a bitch","oh I met this one, she is totaly arogant"...etc.)

So fellow guys, how the fuck do I respond to this, is this just some kind of shit test ?
Do I ignore it, do I tell her I mind it or what ?
And we tend to argue about lots of things aswell, so when we start to argue, should I backoff, or just continue being a "man" and alpha ?


Any advices and sugestions are welcome :D.

Author:  AlphaConfidence [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:47 pm ]
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Constantly be alpha. Don't let your frame be changed. If you want to go for it, then go for it. Stop being a pussy. You're a high value man and you have game and experience. Bed her.

Cheers, Confidence.

Author:  100w [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When she keeps comparing you to her boyfriend ?

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So, long story short, Im best friends with a girl, YES A GIRL, I know thats a big no-no for some guys, but I find it that being friends with a few girls is actually quite good, as they can meet you with their friends and girls are usually better when you want to talk about emotions and stuff, then guys(speaking from experience right here),, so I either way,, me and this girl are best friends,, though we never actually talk about problems or discuss her bf or anything like that, which would actually indicate to me that I am deep in the friendzone( another sidenote also, while I was an AFC I tried to be with her since I had a oneitis on her, but she rejected me,,, but our friendshit got over it),,,either way, I changed A LOT in the meantime (that was more than 1 year ago),, and now she knows that I date a lot of other hot girls and she told me how much I changed and other shit,and there is a lot of flirting between us and kino(since I grew some balls since I got into pua):D,, my problem is, I rly wouldnt mind hooking up with her just for the fun of it, and having fun with her, but she sometimes compares me to her bf, and Im reallly not sure to take that as a good thing or a bad thing ?
And when I talk aobut the girls I date , she tends to dislike/hate them , A LOT("oh no this one is obviously a bitch","oh I met this one, she is totaly arogant"...etc.)

So fellow guys, how the fuck do I respond to this, is this just some kind of shit test ?
Do I ignore it, do I tell her I mind it or what ?
And we tend to argue about lots of things aswell, so when we start to argue, should I backoff, or just continue being a "man" and alpha ?


Any advices and sugestions are welcome :D.
She's jealous. Make her know it. K + F/close next time she's over at yours!!

Author:  Paul_T [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:32 pm ]
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Contrary to what the other guys have said, she is not necessarily into you in a sexual way. There are certainly solid signs she is - jealousy, flirting, etc. But just because she is attracted to you, doesn't mean she will sleep with you.

Of course you can try to sleep with her, but just do so in the knowledge that it could mess with your friendship, and more importantly, fucking a girl with a boyfriend can come back to bite you in the ass. Is fucking her one time really worth messing up their relationship? Maybe it is. Maybe the guy is a dick and you really like the girl. I'm not judging. But choose yourself honestly before you go for it.

And if you decide it is worth it, then I would suggest getting her over to yours to watch a movie, having a few drinks, and just escalating your touch while keeping your conversation non-sexual. sit on the couch and start stroking her leg and inner thigh while talking about the weather. Talk about the film while playing with her fingers. Do whatever you do to get a makeout, and take it from there.

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