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| Author: | Solo_ [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 3:09 pm ] |
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I have no problem opening and approaching besides the occasional AA. But I have been getting stuck with follow up texts. I got three numbers yesterday. The first girl was kind of shy but I was very confident and direct in my game. I got her laughing a bit and when we shook hands hers were sweaty! lol. Anyways I text her later saying "hey I just met this cute girl in the furniture store, she had the most chipped nails ever - My Name." No response The second girl I had a much better connection with. Had her laughing and hey body language was good towards me. We had a great convo about a lot of old childhood memories and gossip and there were no awkward silences. My friend showed up so I had to go, but I got her number and told her I'd text her next time I was around. Texted her last night saying "My friend is obsessed with the big bang theory and when she turned it on it totally reminded me of our nerdy convo earlier today." No response Not sure what's going on?? Every time I get a number I make sure they have mine too in their phones. Hope that was enough info. |
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| Author: | TrippAdvice [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 3:57 pm ] |
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I'd have to say those texts were pretty good. There might be a few issues involved. First, how long did you talk to them? Sometimes getting a number just isn't enough these days. In order to seal a response you need to work on connecting and attracting them more. Then they will be excited to answer your texts/calls. Also, give it a shot and try calling them. You'd be surprised how many women get frustrated when guys just text them. Test out some calling and see how that goes. Just make sure to ALWAYS leave a voicemail. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 5:01 pm ] |
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Ok, here's basically what you wrote to these girls in your texts: "Hi, I'm a really witty guy and I came up with something clever to text you to break the ice in hopes you'll laugh and reply back so we can start talking and I can schedule a date and hopefully get laid. Please like me!" While you didn't write those exact words, that's how a girl's mind interprets them. Remember, they don't see and think the same way we do. They are always looking for ulterior motives and agendas. That's why pua's say to have a "don't give a fuck" attitude. Because a guy who don't give a fuck doesn't have any clear agenda or motive to speak of. I'm not a text gamer by any means, but I'd suggest not trying to over do it. |
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| Author: | TrippAdvice [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 5:03 pm ] |
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Quote: Ok, here's basically what you wrote to these girls in your texts:
Amen. That's true words right there. I'm not a big fan of text game either. I use it mostly for logistics.
"Hi, I'm a really witty guy and I came up with something clever to text you to break the ice in hopes you'll laugh and reply back so we can start talking and I can schedule a date and hopefully get laid. Please like me!" While you didn't write those exact words, that's how a girl's mind interprets them. Remember, they don't see and think the same way we do. They are always looking for ulterior motives and agendas. That's why pua's say to have a "don't give a fuck" attitude. Because a guy who don't give a fuck doesn't have any clear agenda or motive to speak of. I'm not a text gamer by any means, but I'd suggest not trying to over do it. |
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| Author: | Solo_ [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 11:27 pm ] |
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Quote: Ok, here's basically what you wrote to these girls in your texts:
I think you hit the nail right on the head bro. But same thing happened again today with a number I got, however today's text was much more mild."Hi, I'm a really witty guy and I came up with something clever to text you to break the ice in hopes you'll laugh and reply back so we can start talking and I can schedule a date and hopefully get laid. Please like me!" While you didn't write those exact words, that's how a girl's mind interprets them. Remember, they don't see and think the same way we do. They are always looking for ulterior motives and agendas. That's why pua's say to have a "don't give a fuck" attitude. Because a guy who don't give a fuck doesn't have any clear agenda or motive to speak of. I'm not a text gamer by any means, but I'd suggest not trying to over do it. I stopped this girl for directions and she was really friendly, I did some cold reads on her and found some commonalities. We talked for about 5 min and had a really flowing conversation. My friend was calling so I had to go but told her I just moved up here and needed to come back on campus to print something in 2 days. I said you seem like a cool girl I want to get your number so when I come on campus I can steal your login to print stuff (or something along those lines). Got her number and hugged her goodbye while answering the phone....All seemed well. Texted her later "hey ravens girl, how's the rest of your day - my name" no response. I am thinking that my opening, confidence and kino is good, but perhaps I'm just not generating enough interest with them for a future encounter? Not sure how to do that...[/list] |
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