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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 5:23 am ]
Post subject:  Consistency in sexual encounters - how to go about this?
Here's a little about me.

I'm currently 20 years of age and go to university. I was never really any good with dating and women whilst growing up due to being autistic. I have been practicing nightclub game since May this year and lost my virginity in June. Since then I haven't had proper sexual intercourse (i.e: penetrated another girl), but I have engaged in sexual acts with just 2 other girls.

I have a natural friend and know quite a few PUA's around Manchester (UK) who manage this relatively easy. Every time my natural friend gets a girl back to his (and a lot of my PUA friends), he's managed to fuck them with the kind of practiced ease that only comes with experience. Unfortunately I cannot tap into this skill yet as I have little sexperience.

Before you suggest it, yes I know I have to learn things by taking action and naturally develop the skills I desire; that's how I have managed to improve the rest of my game up until sexual encounters. What I'm trying to investigate is replicating the ideal approach towards getting consistent sexual encounters in my own game and lifestyle.

Any key points you would like to say, or key attributes about your own game that gets you laid efficiently enough, please share!

Cheers,
Ninja
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 4:31 pm ]
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How's your kino? Are touching girls? Are you sexualizing conversation?

Are you showing intent? Do they know you're interested in them beyond friendship?

How much are you flirting with them?

These are the ingredients to getting more sexual with a girl and eventually getting her in bed and/or whatever else. Women need to be seduced.

Kino + Flirting + Intent.
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 6:58 pm ]
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Hey Tripp, yes I'm quite physical and direct in my game, although conversation is often casual as opposed to sexual. Even when in the bedroom... how could I neglect that? It's like I wasn't showing my intent enough through every medium of expressing said intent.

I'm thinking of a sexual encounter I recently got into... a girl I went of an evening date with who wacked me off in a park... my conversation was like that of a close friend! How did I fail to see that... Thank you so much dude!

I've just now tried out sexting for the first time over Facebook, that seems to help a lot! Helps expands your creativity creating scenarios and fantasies an whatever, just use it with a girl you think you can get away with sexting with :P

Flirting though, I can flirt efficiently enough... but should I flirt as much as I can or balance it out? That is the question...[/i]
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:32 pm ]
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Always balance it out. Push/pull tactics. Sometimes you're flirting and other times you back off a bit. Keep it all balanced.
Author:  puaninja [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:11 pm ]
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You need sexual confidence. It's exactly like what it sounds like. Grab their shoulders and rub then say "Do you like massages?" Don't say "Can I give you a massage?" Once you start doing it she won't tell you to stop, she'll just melt and tell you it feels good. Then you tell her to lay on her stomach and start doing her back. But you say it very matter-of-factly and with no creepiness. Tell her to pull up her shirt so you can rub her skin, then tell her that her bra is in the way as you undo it. Keep rubbing the whole time. Your hands go to the side touching the sides of her breasts. Maybe you go really low right down to her butt crack. It all feels good and she'll be enjoying it.

Tell her that you've been massaging her too long and now it's her turn to do you. Again, be very matter of fact about it, nothing creepy or sexual about it. Then you take off your shirt (hopefully you have a nice physique) and take her place. She'll go to work for a little bit and then you turn over. That's when you seal the deal.
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:08 pm ]
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Unfortunately I'm low on sexual confidence from my low experience base, but whenever I have got into anything remotely sexual, despite my inexperience, I have not backed down from. Even during that date where I had a handjob in a dark, rapey-looking park I wasn't even thinking about it, it just happened.

I suppose I could use that massage routine when you actually get a girl you've gamed in the same room as you to escalate towards sex... it's stimulating but not just lunging for it, and they anticipate it more so it's more likely to 'be on'. I don't suppose you'd need a masseuse or anything just to get in the mood? Lmao XD
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