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| Author: | Flavour [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 2:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Distance after intimacy at her house, Need your advice! |
Hee guys! Here is the situation: 2 years ago i met a girl that i really liked. I was good at my game then. We could really talk about deep stuff together and she is also really hot hehe. But at the time when i met her. She just broke off with her ex boyfriend for 1,5 months. We had really fun togheter, we had about 6 or 8 dates.. where making out and stuff on several dates. Two times we had sex. She liked me so much that she invited me to eat at her place with her parents. The date was set! But i couple of days before the upcoming date, a family member of her suddenly died. She had a really hard time with it. She was getting a lot of support by her ex (because her ex knew the familymember). And i was at the background. I felt really bad about it. It really fucked everything up. When i contacted her she was nonresponsive or really cold. I confronted her on that. She told me she didn't know what she wanted but she got back feelings for her ex. I felt she had no interest anymore. So i decided to keep distance (that was really hard). After a few months she had a couple of dates with other guys and one of them became her boyfriend. But now after 1,5 year, we had some text contact. She was really enthusiastic and she said she felt sorry for what happend. And she asked me after 1,5 year if i still want to come and eat at her place with her parents. So we settled a date at her place. So i came to her house and had dinner with her parents and we went to her room. We talked and she told me that she broke up with her current boyfriend. We where in her room and we where flirting.. and i gave her a massage..but sometimes i didn't know what to do. Because she gave me mixed signals. So i didn't do anything in her room. When i was standing at the front door and i wanted to leave she was teasing me and i pulled her toward me and we kissed a couple of times. We where texting that night that it was fun and next time i could sleep next to her blablabla. But the next day..I was trying to make some conversations via text. But she was cold and she gave me short answers. I asked her if she is always giving ''such long answers'' (sarcastic) and she didn't responded. Thats 1 day ago by now. Thats why i need your help guys! So im a little frustrated and angry now. Because i still like her and she acts like this! It looks like the situation of 1,5 year ago. I don't know what the best tactic is to apply. Should i call her out becasue of her behaviour? Should I be honest about how i feel. Or should i let this rest? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 3:09 pm ] |
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Quote: So i didn't do anything in her room.
She wanted to go further, but you DIDN'T...WHY?Chill her out for a few, see if she makes contact.... If not re-open, try to isolate again but this time follow through! In the meantime check out some other girls! |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 3:27 pm ] |
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Sounds like you started pulling a little too hard. One thing to remember about women, especially attractive ones, is that they have other guys on the side that you probably don't even know about. They may not be sleeping with them yet, but they are communicating/texting/dating these guys and probably not even telling you about it. When they seem distant from you all of a sudden, its probably because they are distracted by another guy and are questioning who to give more attention to, you or him. That's why they say to have this abundance mentality and continue to game more women all the time. It's not only a good thing to do in it's own right, but it's a perfect way to combat these types of girls who are doing the same thing to you. You can even bullshit her and casually tell her that your ex is now trying to talk to you again, or this girl at school is stalking you. Reveal to her that there are other women in your life. It's will make her jealous and give you more value in her eyes. |
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| Author: | Flavour [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 3:57 pm ] |
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Quote: You can even bullshit her and casually tell her that your ex is now trying to talk to you again, or this girl at school is stalking you. Reveal to her that there are other women in your life. It's will make her jealous and give you more value in her eyes.
Actually im dating someone else. But i don't like her as much as the one i talked about above. Also when i was at her house (the girl i mentioned above) she said that she saw me a few weeks ago with another girl. This was just i classmate, but she didn't knew that. I think that she then contacted me. So wat you are saying in your comment is true, when i think about it now.Thanks for the comment |
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| Author: | Flavour [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 4:06 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: So i didn't do anything in her room.
She wanted to go further, but you DIDN'T...WHY?Chill her out for a few, see if she makes contact.... If not re-open, try to isolate again but this time follow through! In the meantime check out some other girls! Yeah I know men, when i think about it now. I just had to be more agressive and initiative. Because of the mixed signals, i was confused. She didn't do anythink back. I tickled her back and gave her a massage. I also think what puaninja said, i maybe pulled to hard. Thanks for the advice |
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