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| Author: | Juliaan [ Thu Oct 04, 2012 5:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Nervous about my pickup |
Okay guys, this girl has been my target since my AFC days but back then, I wasn't successful with her. I couldn't even have one word from her back, only because I was using shit conversation openers. But this PU worked like a miracle. I met her today, while I was walking on the street with a friend, I have greeted her girlfriend, who is an old friend of me and I saw her smiling while she was walking. I haven't eye contacted or anything like that, neither talked to her, just went to facebook and fortunately she reactivated her account in the same day. I messaged her there, didn't made it long, just told her straight I'd like to meet her and know more about her and she said it'd be a pleasure. So I just asked for her phone number so I can set up a day for our meeting. She gave me her phone number so I might just text her this week-end (her school schedule is totally against mine and I cannot hang with her during the week), because I cannot call her since I am yet a bit shy. Although my shyness hasn't healed yet all, I am really nervous about this meeting with this girl. She's a HB9, I am a hot boy as well lol, but I still want to make this meet successful and get in a relationship with her. I am not sure what'd be the routine with her, I just prefer a walk in the city, while I find out more about her, but not spending money on her, since it's just a girl as any other. So what do you guys recommend me to do? Any advices are damn welcomed. Thanks. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Oct 04, 2012 6:08 pm ] |
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Text her something random so she knows you are thinking about her. Then another day text her and tell her you are going to be downtown tomorrow on an errand or shopping, and ask her if she'd like to join you. You seem to already know not to spend money on her, so I believe there may be hope for you yet! |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Thu Oct 04, 2012 6:10 pm ] |
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Imagine on your date that she's your girlfriend and you've been going out a year. Visualise it till your mind internalises it and you'll be relaxed, non needy and comfortable. |
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| Author: | Juliaan [ Thu Oct 04, 2012 6:16 pm ] |
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Those are welcomed, thanks guys. |
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| Author: | Juliaan [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 5:04 pm ] |
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Not sure, but I've thought about telling her to hang tomorrow night. She should be busy since Saturday night would be a clubbing night, but yet I am not sure whether to ask her to hang during the day or during the night. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 6:06 pm ] |
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Depends on what you want to do and where you want to go. You can do something during the day and stay with her into the night, depending on how you work that angle. |
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| Author: | Juliaan [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 7:07 pm ] |
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The city I live in isn't that big and we don't have that much to do in it. I've thought about having a walk, while she tells me about herself, since I don't know anything about her and eventually kiss close, create some sexual tension. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Oct 05, 2012 7:23 pm ] |
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You better find something interesting in that city, for your own sake. Girls don't want a guy who walks them around in circles and then kisses them so they can try to fuck later. But you are on the right track. Maybe schedule the walk for later in the afternoon, do some kino and then ask if she wants to go see some new movie that just came out, like Looper or something. (You can use movies as a conversation topic and then later on you'll know what movie to invite her to go see). You can either kiss close her during the movie, or if you kiss her on the walk, try to make out with her during the movie. |
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