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| Author: | PUA Reality [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 4:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | BF Objections |
I only do daygame and recently I have been getting a lot of frustrating BF objections. I don't mind when I get them early in set but it frustrates me when the set seems to be going perfect and I get the BF card when I try to number close. Mind you that I only open direct, I don't do indirect game because I suck at it. The last 3 girls that gave me the BF card were all over me and I just felt so much connection to them but ended up getting stuck on the BF objection. Sometimes its not a BF objection but a "I am seing someone" kind of objection. I dont like asking girls if they have a bf during set so I always end up getting caught off guard when they bring up that they have a bf. Surprisingly these end up being the sets in which I have the most chemistry with. Any ideas on how to get around them having a bf when I go for the number close? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 4:37 am ] |
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| Author: | Hammerofdawn [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 11:57 am ] |
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I'd just call her out on it, it maybe is just a test or an easy way out for her, but it could be genuine. Shoot a couple of quick fire questions at her, "Oh cool, what's his name?" "How long have you been seeing each other?" and gauge her reactions, you're catching her off guard as most people wouldn’t challenge her from here onwards, so if she stumbles, lengthy pause before answering or simply doesn’t know what to say and starts grinning, then playfully tease her for trying to mislead you. Or you could go down the friends route, but with no intention of entering the ‘friend zone’, again call her out on it "So... are you not allowed to have male friends? (...that’s so cute!)" and get her qualifying herself, then progress with the number close, if you get a day2, just see how it goes. At a later stage find out if she really does have a BF and take it from there, I'm not a fan of BF destroyers like the 'strawman technique' and wouldn't recommend it in your initial pickup or day2 (its more suited for night game IMO) but you need to deal with that obstacle when the time comes, but that's just food for thought if you believe she in an unhappy relationship. I have never intentionally tried to split up a couple if I knew she genuinely was happy with what she has - but that’s just my morality. |
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