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| Author: | Cheyenne [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Recovering ex gf. |
Right so I've been with a girl last winter for like 2 weeks, then after a few days of break up, we went in a relationship again for another 2 weeks, in which I got inloved. In this time we were hanging out like 1,5 hours on a day and in almost one place because before being with her, I was with one of her friends and she was basically scared of someone spotting us and then reporting to her friend, when she was asking me to do, but also I've asked her to do. I was in my AFC days as well, I was kinda boring and we were sitting there and kiss. At a point she told me she's inloved with me and shit and I was really happy because she said she had a boyfriend before me and she fell in love with that guy. But then when we broke up after a failed meet, she told me she had no feeling for me and she loved the boyfriend before me and shit, she broke my heart (there's still a lot to talk and shit, I am not in a mood right now, just basic shit). So we spoke a few more times since then, she said she loves me at a point and she misses me and I obviously got the idea that it's a lie. But now that I learnt some PUA things I really want to get her back and repay what she did to me. I'd actually want to make her fall inlove with me and then break her heart, for real. So, any ideas? This is really important to me. |
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| Author: | Spacevolt [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:40 pm ] |
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why are you wanting to get her back? just moveon with your life. show her what she missed on and that way will be the most effective way to get her back.. i personally dislike guys who use these tools to hurt girls with that mindset i dont think you deserve anygirl, i personally steal girls from guys like you... remember always leave her better than when you first found her. |
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| Author: | TheSeagull [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:54 pm ] |
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you should game her from scratch. wait some time, hook up with some girls, have the time of your life, make sure she sees it.. then randomly ask her out to some place proceed to game if you run proper game, after a while she will want to be your GF.. proceed to agree make sure not to fall in love.. keep your inner game solid at all times, be higher-value, be the challenge, but at the same time, transition out of game mode and into BF-GF dynamics (it does not happen overnight).. if all works properly, after a while she will fall in love with you. meet all her friends, charm them. meet her parents. charm them. make sure you do not fall in love with her during this time. when she is at her peak, bring her on the beach at midnight. watch the stars together. put on some romantic music (an iPhone is fine for that).. when she says "I love you" and wants to hug you like she never hugged anyone else.. dump her and laugh at her for crying like a little wimp. now ask yourself if the time required and all the emotions that you will need to control and any other guilt you may feel afterwards.. and the simple fact that you might end up falling in love with this girl... is all of that worth the feeling of the revenge-executing moment? if so, game on. I would love to tell you that Karma is a bitch, but since she hurt you first, I believe Karma will be fine with you hurting her. |
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| Author: | tlicious [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 11:51 am ] |
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Dude you should just forget about this girl. It's always going to be way more trouble than it's worth and you are not very likely to see the results you are looking for. The reason you feel this way is because your ego is hurt and that's why you want to hurt her back. Don't let your ego play you like this, in the long run it's just a drop in the ocean. |
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| Author: | Demo- [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 3:54 am ] |
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I did that to my ex, not because she did that to me but because she was a heartless girl in the begining, then she became sweet but I was a jerk and I broke her heart, not worth it dude, look getting her isn't hard, simPly don't Prioritize her, if she wants to see you YOU SET TH3 TIME ND DATE if she can't make it then tell her oh well maybe next week I'm busy, make her take you out, remember your the prize not her, game her all over again |
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| Author: | InequalityOfArms [ Sun Sep 23, 2012 9:20 am ] |
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I have been where you are. It sucks and I'm sorry. You only want to hurt her because you're still sore about what happened. When you get over her for real, you will only wish her well. You need to understand something: people usually don't hurt each other out of malice. They do it because they are dumb and don't know how to deal with things properly. Revenge is stupid. You only want revenge because of the nasty violent urges encoded in your stupid animal meat circuitry. Grasp that and you won't be angry at her anymore. Move on and game other girls. Treat them well. Give them what they want, which is the chance to be with a strong, confident, emotionally mature man. Be that man and the girl who hurt you will feel like a fool for missing out. The best revenge is a life well lived. |
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