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| Author: | pseudofro [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 12:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Taking Control LIKE A BOSS! |
I run into this problem every fricking time I flex my pick-up pecks. Breaking the ice hasnt really been the issue, once we get into actual conversation I feel the my control of the situation slip away. Its not soo much that i forget what to say as much as it is I become completely reactive to what the girl is saying. My reactions will still be witty and funny of course but we go of on a tangent that she picked and I followed with. I think its because I don't know how to transition or escalate properly from topic to topic without feeling like I'm interrupting. Some advice would be much obliged . |
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| Author: | PapaWolf [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 6:09 pm ] |
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Control your frame. When in conversation i am conscious of how stand/sit. Body language is key, If you project yourself as an alpha, it helps you feel as one to. You want her to be the one talking. The more she talks, the les you have to say and the better off you are. Listen to what she has to say, or if shes just drgging on, tune her out and look intrested. You could use momentary pauses such as for air to cut in the conversation to possibly escalate or apply kino awe look at those dimples" then poke them. The women that ive known tend to blush. Overall, keep your cool, and stay aware. Avoid falling into her frame, disqualifying or negs help. Happy sarging |
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| Author: | Hound [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 4:22 am ] |
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This is similar to one of my problems. I sometimes find myself just sprinting through various conversation starters in desperate attempts to keep the conversation going, but never really giving any of them a chance to flourish, because I deliver to rapidly and often answer my own questions. So, what I've done the last few times is, go out with either a solid openner or attempt a natural open, and then, just listen to her response and try to come up with a random question about something she mentioned during her response, usually in relationship to "So, how do you think _____ affected who you are now?" Which doesn't have to be serious. If she says she's a huge Jamba juice fan, you could still use that question as a joke. Once I asked how writing a poem in the seventh grade about elephants affect a who a girl was today and it got a great response. I am still struggling a little with my issue, so im not sure how helpful this is, but I feel as though it has been beneficial. |
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