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| Author: | Blonski3_16 [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 1:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | On a date |
Hey Has anyone got any tips on conversation topics or how to act when actually on a date. Iv had a few dates recently when the girl was just plain boring. I was trying my best trying to get them to open up but the conversations felt like one way traffic. Its so frustrating Blonski |
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| Author: | 4nik8r [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 8:47 pm ] |
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Keep going out with as many women as you can because you will start to find the fun ones eventually. I've spent time with certain girls who were boring and not fun to be around hoping they would eventually "turn around" — maybe it was because I saw SOMETHING in their personality I was trying to bring to the surface. Sometimes you will luck out and have a good time here and there with a girl who you originally thought was boring but I am finding more often than not my intuition is correct — as in, if I think a girl is boring, crazy, combative — or whatever other reason I have to not be attracted to her that isn't going to change very easily. Also, make sure you exude the excitement, fun, confidence, and BE YOURSELF when you are on a date with a girl — I mean... I think we all hold back a little bit. I have a VERY offensive tongue when I am just ready to fully open up around someone and "let it rip" so I do tend to conceal some of that side of my personality until I know a girl can handle it! I am not going to make a joke about handicapped people until I know she doesn't have a brother in a wheelchair right??!!!? You will have much MUCH better results if you spend your time and energy looking for girls who are not boring and are exciting than you will trying to transform a boring girl into someone exciting. I am not saying it can't be done — but seriously — I have taken this to the extreme including "turning out" a 34 year old virgin who had been married before meeting me for several years (yes, the extreme) and in the end coming to the conclusion that faced with the future choice of A. 34 year old virgin who I can open up to all new experiences and be her ONLY experience vs B. A porn star who just got done setting the gang bang world record... If faced with those TWO choices ONLY — option B wins every time! |
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