Hello, I am a fairly new guy in this field i find sometimes i get into a little conflict with woman where their opinoin is very strong and i don't know how to reply as if i will piss them off and be rude... This happened twice, not a lot and i know i should always diffuse the situation, this is an example of it happening over text. Please help.
I made a lot of mistake over the text as well, can some of you gurus out there help me ?
Me:
Hey *****, It's so hot in Spain, save me !
Me:
Fuck Sake, ignore me one of time, I am never start a conversation with you again.
Girl:
I actually wasn't ignoring you I read your message and forgot to reply. But you know what Tom, what you just said to me was plain rude so don't bother starting a conversation with me again. The way you just spoke to me was inexcusable.
Me:
haha, very well. standing up for yourself... Hope you weren't reply to this just before you went to bed thinking about me
Me:
I was rude. I am sorry. I didn't realise, i just expect people to reply when i speak to them.
Girl:
Okay, thankyou for apologising. I have to admit though you have changed recently. I liked the old Tom who didn't swear and wasn't rude to me. Have a good time in Spain.
Me:
wow, wishing me to have a good time already, you are coming over to save me from this hot weather, getting a tan already
Me:
and if that's the case you aren't going to like me for a while then
Girl:
Well I don't really know what to say to that but I guess ignoring you would just make you angry. Just think it is a shame that you need to use the language that you do and be a bit rude to express yourself! Don't know whether you think it is cool or something but it really isn't.
Me:
This is getting no where; I won't swear at you again, what's your plan for the summer then ? smile please ****girl's name*** !!
Girl:
Just being honest and think you need to hear it! I am going to Scotland soon and it's my sisters 18th next wednesday so are having a party.
Me:
Yeah, you know i find it kind of cute when a girl try to mothers me, but kind of annoying, hard to say. Almost forgot you're half scottish.
Girl:
I'm not mothering you. I am saying it from a friends point of view. If you care at all about how you come across to people then I would consider how you behave and act that is all I am trying to say to you.
Me:
Thank you.
why are so serious all the time ?
Girl:
I'm not serious all the time. If you think I am, then you really don't know me very well. I'm just being honest with you right now.
Me:
Thanks for your honesty, appreciate it.
Girl:
Not sure whether you are being serious. But hope you have a good time in Spain. See you in September.
Me:
I was i was , have a good time in Scotland too...
I think i was*
I fucked up this whole text pretty badly, got to be one of my worst ever conversation. I guess it's NEXT for me then, i like her that's why I fucked this text up ...
Any help is much appreciated
