Guys,
This might be a long post :
I consider myself to be a decent looking guy. Not model standard by any means, but certainly not too bad!
I have a lot of self confidence, I'm outgoing, sociable, and girls and guys always have fun in my presence. I have a vast social circle and am pretty well known around town.
The MAJOR problem is that I've had a physical disability since birth. I believe that this is the only thing stopping me getting the girls I want. Not to brag, but I honestly believe I have all the qualities and attributes that matter most when it comes to getting girls, but 99% of girls can't seem to see past the disability. My physical problems honestly aren't a problem for ME, but they are for the ladies. Hell, I've even seen girls eye fuck me in bars when I've been sitting down and they can't see my crutches, only for the expression on their faces to change dramatically as soon as they see that I'm disabled! Honestly!
All this stuff about not caring what other people think/be confident/ it's all in your head, etc? Well I just don't believe it's true in my case. I genuinely love my life and I DON'T give a shit what people think about me! But girls just see it as some kind of barrier.
I know that disabled people can have gaming success, that's not the issue here. Good luck to them and everybody else! But there is no escaping the fact that it's SO much harder for disabled people to get girls than for able-bodied people in general.
Like I said, I have a lot of the "core attributes" to get women, and I think I have a great attitude to life. I graduated from a reputable university, and in spite of my physical difficulties, I then moved abroad to live and work.
I've made a success of my life where many people might have given up. I love my life, but the lack of success with women is the one MASSIVE piece of the puzzle that is missing!
I think that because of my disability, women just ASSUME that I'm not "sexual". This is the one thing which I think I maybe need to work on most. But that aside, it's all just so frustrating!
Any advice would be much appreciated! Thanks fellas!
Long rant over!
