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Author:  Drughi [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 12:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Can´t get it fucking right....with attraction part.
Hi guys have a problem, I have not any problem to approach a girl and make them laugh. I make them laugh so much and they says always like you are the funniest guy I ever met or you are so cool. But here comes the problem, I build comfort to them and they laugh and all that shit but I dont get to a level where we have a attraction level.

And sometimes they even stop talking to me suddenly and just sees me as the clown the guy who makes all the people laugh like a fucking comedian. I dont want to be that guy I want to make attraction with the girls. Maybe I am so stupid that i dont know when a girl are attracted or I joke so much that they are getting tired of me. Sometimes I go over the line and the girls accusing me for lying all the time because i kind of "makes silly lies".
Could someone please help me I want to improve, does anyone know some books who are good to learn to get better on get attraction with girls.

Sorry for my bad english :)
Author:  pumpington [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 1:43 pm ]
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how do you know you don't have attraction?
what sort of compliance are you building?
what steps do you make to move things beyond joking around and talking?

how is your style/grooming/fitness?
how is your body language/tonality? (you got the posture and confident calm strong voice going on?)

how many girls would you say you have approached in order to establish this ''pattern'' you are seeing?
Author:  Fluffs [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 2:23 pm ]
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You're not there to entertain, you're there to be entertained or entertain yourself.
Also, break comfort if you think you can handle it.

I usually break comfort when it's just her and me knowing it, as that increases trust.

Hope this helps.
Author:  JimD [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 2:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can´t get it fucking right....with attraction part.
Quote:
Hi guys have a problem, I have not any problem to approach a girl and make them laugh. I make them laugh so much and they says always like you are the funniest guy I ever met or you are so cool. But here comes the problem, I build comfort to them and they laugh and all that shit but I dont get to a level where we have a attraction level.

And sometimes they even stop talking to me suddenly and just sees me as the clown the guy who makes all the people laugh like a fucking comedian. I dont want to be that guy I want to make attraction with the girls. Maybe I am so stupid that i dont know when a girl are attracted or I joke so much that they are getting tired of me. Sometimes I go over the line and the girls accusing me for lying all the time because i kind of "makes silly lies".
Could someone please help me I want to improve, does anyone know some books who are good to learn to get better on get attraction with girls.

Sorry for my bad english :)
Great job at making them laugh, this is golden. So I see that you can have massive potential to be great at this game.

The only problem is, when you make girls laugh, what are they laughing at? You? The Story?

I make girls laugh, and when they do, it's mostly about the tension that I've created between us, sexual tension to be exact. So work on joking/teasing around sexual tension.

If you do that you'll soon realize how bad it is that they want "kino" from you. And when I finally do give them kino, it's turned them on so much that caressing and kissing is too easy! So at this point if I haven't got their number, I get it/or bounce them out of the venue and do what it do with that puzzay.
Author:  Drughi [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 5:57 pm ]
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Hello boys again, thanks for your very good answers and now I will try to explain a little bit more.

Pumpington: To answer to your question; first of all I don´t really know if I get attraction or not, very hard to tell but most of the time it feels like they dont get attraction.

I don´t really understand your second and third question sorry :/ sorry for bad english :( (Please explain again if you could)

The forth question could I answer with that my body language is kind of relaxed and have a eye contact with the girl/girls I appraoch, I talk kind of fast sometimes and
say some stupid shit and they laugh much (i don´t overrate this), my voice is kind of loud and confident sometimes when I speak. When I speak I speak often with my body, like a italian sometimes not always. Saw now that you asked if my voice is confident not always but I don´t really know how a confident voice sound like:/

The last question almost 95 % of the girls, Can give you a good example today I was going playing football with my friend with som new guys that i dont know. And when we played I saw two girls sitting and chatting I go to them and like always sitting and joke with them. They kind of laugh at me and with me, I made one of the girl to laugh at the other girl "the target" much, but then I just went away and played again football. I wasn´t chicken out we had still conversation but the guys needed me to play.

After 40 minutes I see the two girls coming and watching when I played but I never felt attraction from them of me :/

Then a group of 3 girls and one boy i joked with them very much and they where having a great time but as always no attraction I think. Then I was trying of the HB8 and she then told me she had a boyfriend..... And it was really true because I knew her boyfriend but I felt again that this was fail like always for me. Maybe I could try with the other girl the HB7 but no I went playing again.

So i went back playing with my guys for maybe 20 minutes and again I see two blondes HB6 HB7, i sit and joke with them for some minutes and one of the girl talking in the phone and she laugh and says like to her friend in the phone; literally
HAHAHAHAHAH you never gonna belive this, this is the funniest thing I have ever experienced. And then I went back playing this time I really didnt feel any attraction just felt like ther amuser kind like CLOWN :(

And after some playing I see a group of three girls and starting to joke with them I joked too much with one of the girls I was maybe to cooky and she wanted me to leave, and I said you can leave me and I stay with your friends who by the way was real ugly two HB0 HB0 and there friend who was angry at me was a HB7 I didnt give here so much attention and I joked about some stuff she didnt like.

So the guys I played with was like what a fuck is with this guy, they asked me what my magic is and I think for my self I have no magic I dont even get the girls. Im like a fucking CLOWN, I dont get the girls. My conversations is full of shit and we just sit and laugh like I am the strange guy who are a comedian :/ I couldn´t understand what they think was so amazing I just felt like a idiot. But the guys hahahhah i got them, they was like my bitches after that wanted my approval or something. They wanted to talk to me all the time, I think they are real geeks or stupid and never spoken to a girl.... I dont know, I just see my self like a failure because I dont get the job done to get attraction to met them again and other fun
;) 8)
MrFluffs: How do you mean with break comfort my friend ?


JimD: They are laughing at me and my stories who I always made up about things around us. Sometimes I pretend to know one of the girls in the set and sit with them and just having a normal conversation and she ilaughing much and her friends thinking is this her friend or what, but today i didnt do that. Today I tried to have conversations without jokes, but I can´t it feels so boring to just sit and talk like old couple or something.
< I make girls laugh, and when they do, it's mostly about the tension that I've created between us, sexual tension to be exact. So work on joking/teasing around sexual tension. > This was interesting could you please explain more how you mean.

Thank you guys very much for your answers I hope I can get more answers from you
Sorry for long text guys :/

Going out again to catch a movie and then casino I would update with more fun later, I will try to get more attraction this time.
Author:  rakeal [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 6:50 pm ]
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It's all in your head. You're actually really close to getting something on the go. You also have the potential to be one of the best. The only thing standing in your way is yourself. You need to learn confidence and not care what people think of you.

I can tell you right now that you don't have attraction you have interest. Being self conscious kills attraction. Being interesting (funny) builds interest. Being confident in yourself builds attraction
Author:  Sir_Richard_Lindo [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 4:29 am ]
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Hi Drughi,

You're quite normal, and you also have a gift that most people don't have. The
gift to make people laugh at any given moment in time. Don't be hard on yourself,
have fun with attracting and seducing women.

You're really halfway there Drughi, making women laugh means you've your
foot in the door -so to speak. The next step is to switch to smooth seduction.

Take your tone down a bit
Look more deeply into her eyes
Smile
Touch her on the arms and shoulders while she's laughing and having fun

Then say, "you would be a fun date, write down your number." That's the close.
Then you go out and further sexually escalate.

God bless

Sir Richard Lindo
Author:  Drughi [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 2:35 pm ]
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Hi again my friends,

Your tips are awesome both from rakeal and Sir_Richard_Lindo.

Rakeal you have so right I thinking to much what people thinks and I will train more to not do that. I have some sick plans how I will do that :D How do you mean that self conscious kills attraction Rakeal? Thanks for your answers

And you Sir_Richard_Lindo thank you very much for your tips it something I will test later today if I have the energy to go out.

I must ask also you guys who give me good advice how succesful are you with girls :D
Author:  rakeal [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 1:09 pm ]
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Quote:
How do you mean that self conscious kills attraction Rakeal?
The moment you doubt yourself and a woman sees it, she looses attraction. Confidence and grit builds attraction.
Author:  Crypto [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 1:54 pm ]
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"Make a woman laugh and you can make her do anything!" - Marilyn Monroe

Soo, so very true!
Author:  Fluffs [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 3:32 pm ]
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Quote:
"Make a woman laugh and you can make her do anything!" - Marilyn Monroe

Soo, so very true!
Just don't be a clown for her.
Girls are empathethic, have fun and she will too. p;
Author:  Drughi [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 5:12 pm ]
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OK thanks guys I think I understanding what you mean, but I should say something I changed the game plan in whole. I starting to just talk to them and ask how they are doing like I know them. In the begging they are confused then we just talking shit.

One blonde HB7:
We talked a bit and I think I should have asked for the number but I didnt stupid as I am. But know I dont joke as I usaually do just sometimes. Then she took here bus, she waved to me from the bus and trying to get my attention so thats why I think 90 % if I had ask for the number I would get it.

Another brunette HB7:
A serbian girl I did the same approach like I did to the other girl. And this time I went for the number and I thought I fucked it up. The conversation wasnt that good. But I get a small reward.


Now without joking it feels like there is more attraction, but still one thing I cant start with the question opener Im still afraid that the women have read the game and see something there and I am doomed. Because if I can use some of the methods I think I have even more advantage for this game.
Anyone who know what I should do.

Thanks
Author:  Fluffs [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:19 pm ]
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Quote:
Now without joking it feels like there is more attraction, but still one thing I cant start with the question opener Im still afraid that the women have read the game and see something there and I am doomed. Because if I can use some of the methods I think I have even more advantage for this game.
Anyone who know what I should do.

Thanks
Girls like sex? GIRLS LIKE SEX. Yeah, they do.
You could even TELL them what you're up to, you don't have to fucking hide.
But if you want to...
You could SHOW her that you're "actually" just trying to make friends with people (which would be lies).
And trust me, she'd fall for it.

Just be as HUMAN as possible, you don't have to be perfect, you don't have to be anything, you know you want something and you know she might want something, that's it.
Author:  TheGreatest [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 7:41 am ]
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I do the joking thing alottt, i feel like I am in the same boat as you right now.
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