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| Author: | theRocker [ Wed Jul 04, 2012 12:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | is it a shit test or what?? |
ok that's what happened today.. I made the HB a favor and i told her she now had a debt with me.. so she offered me to have a dinner at her home.. we went there and she started speaking about relationships.. hers and then mine.. she said first something like "people are now thinking a lot of stuff about what we are doing tonight".. (shit test? or IOD?) so the main topics were that she comes from a very bad experience in relationship, and that there is a guy who is trying now to go out with her.. about that last topic she started saying that this guy is an asshole because he has a girlfriend and that she would never go with a guy like that.. she only likes serious people.. so i started letting her understand i am serious.. finally my doubt was: was it a shit test? or the signal that i fell into the friend zone?? fuck!! so i didn't know what to do.. if i tried too fast with her maybe she would think i'm like the guy she hates.. finally impossible kino escalation, and no IOI, let me not to try to k-close.. later we went out.. there were fireworks.. i put a arm on her back and finally i kissed her on the check.. no reaction.. but there were too many friends so close and I couldn't escalate.. when fireworks finished she told a friend in front of me "he kissed me on the check!" in a funny way.. (shit test or IOD?).. finally when we went home on foot she spoke all the time with somebody else.. and her goodnight was a sort of cold.. i feel like i only made bullshits tonight! i'm an idiot! |
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| Author: | Shinjuku [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 9:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: is it a shit test or what?? |
Hey! Quote:
she said first something like "people are now thinking a lot of stuff about what we are doing tonight".. (shit test? or IOD?)
I think her Anti-Slut Defense kicked in. I'm kinda new to the community but I've been in these coversations A LOT! Those were not shit tests she was throwing at you - she just got kinda screwed up by her ex-bfs. I don't know how old she is, but it seems to me that she's quite young and had some lasting bad expieriences. IMO you should slow down - she's got something to chew on, she's unsure - doesn't wanna get hurt again etc. Idk what happend to her. Don't push her, you've already made your intentions clear.[/quote] |
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