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Author:  s465435d2 [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 5:31 pm ]
Post subject:  They can never "hang out."
Only two instances here. Happens more often but here are just two specific recent moments. Just looking for some expert options.

1. HB8. Took her out for a date, and it went alright, at best, and she agreed to hang out with me some other time. Weeks have passed, and I've been asking her occasionally, maybe once a week or so, if she wants to hang out and every time, she says she can't, mostly because she doesn't wanna be tired for work the next day. I don't buy it, but she'll text me kinda often saying I need to get my ass to go see her. Do I make it easy and just stop playing her games, or do I keep working the texting game.

2. EX-FB9. Had a bad case of one-itis with a SHB a few years ago, but damn it, it was the best sex I'd ever gotten. She texts me the other day, thinking I didn't still have her number and when she found out that I knew who it was she said she was just trying to fuck with me. How can I work some game onto her to get her to meet up?
Author:  P1nkstar [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 1:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: They can never "hang out."
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Only two instances here. Happens more often but here are just two specific recent moments. Just looking for some expert options.

1. HB8. Took her out for a date, and it went alright, at best, and she agreed to hang out with me some other time. Weeks have passed, and I've been asking her occasionally, maybe once a week or so, if she wants to hang out and every time, she says she can't, mostly because she doesn't wanna be tired for work the next day. I don't buy it, but she'll text me kinda often saying I need to get my ass to go see her. Do I make it easy and just stop playing her games, or do I keep working the texting game.

2. EX-FB9. Had a bad case of one-itis with a SHB a few years ago, but damn it, it was the best sex I'd ever gotten. She texts me the other day, thinking I didn't still have her number and when she found out that I knew who it was she said she was just trying to fuck with me. How can I work some game onto her to get her to meet up?
1. Attraction seems a bit on the low side, but still ok. Try instead of asking, making a statement. You are coming with me for drinks tomorrow, we'll make it short! (if she flakes, might be she already has plans). Send it to her again the next week but say. This is your last chance to get drinks with me, i'll pick you up tomorrow. If she doesn't apply, next her.

2. Try to get her in some emotional state, send her a "fuck off" message, but i think the game is lost on her.
Author:  MadTown Mayhem [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 4:12 am ]
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Weeks have passed, and I've been asking her occasionally, maybe once a week or so, if she wants to hang out and every time, she says she can't
TAKE THE HINT.

There's a slight chance that when women do something like this they are testing whether or not a guy might be committed to her, but if you are asking her out once a week and nothing has happened then obviously that isn't the case here.

How you are asking her out could be an issue as far as she is concerned too. Asking her out directly for a date is one thing, you doing something really interesting and saying it is OK for her to drop by is another.
Author:  s465435d2 [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 4:58 am ]
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TAKE THE HINT.

There's a slight chance that when women do something like this they are testing whether or not a guy might be committed to her, but if you are asking her out once a week and nothing has happened then obviously that isn't the case here.

How you are asking her out could be an issue as far as she is concerned too. Asking her out directly for a date is one thing, you doing something really interesting and saying it is OK for her to drop by is another.
Yeah at least you're honest. I like it.

My method now is to give her space and let her come to me and let her make the plans. Shes already tried messaging me on Facebook which I ignored, but tomorrow I'm just gonna text her saying like sorry I didn't see it. If she comes back, she'll come, if not, shit happens.
Author:  s465435d2 [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 6:27 am ]
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Thanks to this advice, I'm going to get somewhere with both of these girls. With the HB8 situation, I waited for her to talk to me, ignored her messages a few times, then invited her to a party at my house. She said no because she was going out for a girls night. I actually didn't care that she couldn't make it, and she said I wanna see you this weekend. I said "alright, you pick the day, I don't want to keep bothering you." She said I wasn't bothering her and said Saturday night after I work we'd meet up at the bar. If she flakes I'm gonna say fuck it she had her shot.
In the situation with the EX-FB9, I waited for her to start talking to me, then invited her to the same party. She said she was going to come, until I told her it was gonna start at 11:30 PM. The conversation kept going and we were talking about how I just got a new car. She said take me for a ride and I offered up the suggestion of a motorcycle ride and she seemed to be excited about the motorcycle, so I'm hanging out with her on Sunday and taking her for a ride :). If she flakes I'm gonna keep trying to get her back as a FB.

Thanks again.
Author:  s465435d2 [ Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:16 pm ]
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Update:

HB8 blew me off last night, ended up working better than I thought. Found a new bar only 1 town over and did the newbie mission, just said hi to every girl I crossed paths with no matter how old or young or drunk. Actually surprised to see that some girls stayed and talked for a little, but my main mission last night was to just scope out the area and have a few beers since I had a bad night at work.

Today however, ExFB9 came over and we went for a motorcycle ride. It felt great to hear her laugh and pretty much have a good time. Took her back to my house and laid on my bed for a while and I avoided kino at all times. She, however, was constantly rubbing my arm, asking me to flex, playing with my .1 inch of hair I have on my head. She even put her head on my chest for a minute or two, but I'm pretty sure I'll be seeing her again. Just gonna play it cool, let her pick the days, and work on my game from there, hell maybe I can get a sex buddy out of the deal, who knows!
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