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| Author: | Flare [ Sat Jan 05, 2008 6:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Why i dont aproach... |
k So i was at some gay banquet party thing... and i realized why i dont approach... so before hand im all like yee i can approach any set i want i know it" but then when you get there you say to urself K well not rite now... itl be weird... Now ive done this MANY times and today at this gay banquet i Blazed (smoked weed) with my buddies and i realized... this "weird"were thinking of is the EMBARESMNET that you get after you sarge... I look at these two girls dancing and think "if i want i can easily approach them... i can say -hey havnt seen u all night how u doin?-- you can even think Oh il say "So what you two are like best friends?? Bam you think of going rite into BEST FRIEND TEST everythings there... from there you say youl act cool and meybe dance abit... BUT!!!!! then you realize "i could do all that and MEYBE have them response well but.... if they dont and i seem lie an idiot.. every1 knows every1 il be soooooooooooooooo humilated.... BIGGEST DLV in the world..... kk FUK THIS set i aint risking it... Basically this happens at parties too!! even if u dunno any1... ud wana meet every1.... if one bitch embareses u then ur done!! no meeting any1!! Also today at this thing i realized that if i walk up to two people ( guy nd girl) in a convo... there outside having a smoke talking... i dun wana bother in the middle so i wait til they finish... but then it gets aquard and im like some retartd just tehre not doin anything while tehre flirting adn chatting and all.... So i " pretend" to speak on the phone and go back in how pathetic. AND then it hit me.... This ( i gues onlyf or me meybe others too...) Aproach Anxiety... is the fear of EMBARESMNET!!!!!!! you dont wana look like a fool... even though u know these methods are golden and will work... Theres a chance they might not and then BAM ur a big fool!! u know what i gues il jsut wait till im older and then drive sumwhere really far and sarge people i dont know so i wont care aobut the emabresmnt.. but for now! i know too many people at these parties/ shcool/ places ... cant handle the emberesmnet! FUCK! |
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| Author: | MLTR [ Sat Jan 05, 2008 7:04 am ] |
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you are learning son... lol. you are very right here... i also think this is a fear of rejection, which could also lead to embaressment. |
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| Author: | PrettyBoy41 [ Sat Jan 05, 2008 7:30 am ] |
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there are lots of ways to overcome AA man, I suggest picking up the Rules of the Game by style. its like a step by step process to get over AA |
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