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Author:  Romaniac [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:44 am ]
Post subject:  Girls often put up a bitch shield on me
What happened today is a perfect example of what always happens.
I went to a store at the mall selling summer clothes and there were two girls working there. I picked up a beater with the quote iloveboobies on it. I asked one of the girls if it would suit me, and she said "ohh youre into thosse kinds of things" with a sarcastic tone of voice. I snapped right back saying "hey! This shirts about breast cancer quit trying to make me look like a perv! Now. Do you have any other things with the same. Aption?"
She then proceeded to show me all the other clothes meanwhile the other girl there was just throwing in comments. I flirted with both of them until they asked me for my age when i said, thats irrelevant, how old are you two?

The younger quieter one lied about her age and said they were both 19 and said they were too old for me. I was like "youre right. In 10 years time id be forced to leave you for a younger, sexyer vErsion of you ;)" to which she said thatss not shallow at all. And neither of them laughed ...
I know its a funny line and i delivered it properly...... But it never works.
Anyways, the girl ended up growing a bitch shield which i constantly shot at with negs as she grew more and more cold towards me. But she just blew off every neg i threw at her like it didnt even matter.

The biggest sticking point is that when i try to be funny they dont laugh
When i neg they dont take me seriously, and dont have respect for me...
And when i try to flirt they put up a bitch shield!


To tell you the truth, i dont know how else to feel except like a faliure. A complete failiure. I just dont feel like i get any respect from women. I rarely get respect from men either.. Which is making me feel completely non alpha. The funny thing is, i have confidence, i know what to say, i know how the game works including attraction push pull and negging... But i can never seem to get it. Someone please tell me what im doing wrong. Also if you want any more info about this scenario tell me
Author:  TheNamesDrew [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:01 am ]
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No offense, and I'm not perfect at this at all, but to me it's sounds like you're being too much of an asshole. Try some less direct humor that's not focused on negging them. Try just being nicer a bit, obviously still neg somewhat, but maybe not as much? At a certain point girls probably just go "Wow this guys a fucking douche." It's happened to me before. Try to just be more sexual, be more provocative. Maybe wear some nicer clothes, use more sexual eye contact, use slower gestures, a fucking sexy smirk after you say something, act casual, idk just seem like you're the fucking man. No need to constantly neg the girls you know? Just play it a bit more cool, more sly i guess you could say. Seems like they lost interest after one too many cocky/kinda jerk comments. Ya you were trying to be funny but seems like they didn't take it that way at a certain point. Hope that helps a bit =P
Author:  TheNamesDrew [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:04 am ]
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And you're definately not a failure at all man. Damn i've had so many problems with girls. At one point i finally got to fucking girls somewhat consistently and then i couldnt even get it up for like a month! Every time i tried i wouldn't be able to get hard. It fucking suckedddddddd. But you know what? I got over it haha. You'll get past this too, guarunteed. At least you can get hard when you need to right? lmfao you'll do fine bro head up
Author:  Romaniac [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:15 am ]
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Makes sense what youre saying. Applying too much presude might work negatively. Although i only used negs when i felt the bitch shield coming up and i was being nice. And im most definately well groomed and well dressed. Girls just dont fuckin take me seriously
Author:  TheNamesDrew [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 7:03 am ]
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I feel like this shit will definately work out for you, funny how it always does in the end. Maybe try to game some more girls, try the same things you've been doing? See if I'm right, cause i might not be. But maybe you're negging too much/too harshly, and if you are you'll be able to catch it the next few times, and fix it if need be. Self-evaluate the next few times after you've gamed a couple more girls. I'm sure you'll get past it bro
Author:  Mantis- [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:12 pm ]
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Maybe try to game some more girls, try the same things you've been doing?
If it never works, you should stop it, not keep doing it.
Author:  Romaniac [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:13 pm ]
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I feel likeim saying the right things but my delivery of them is shit. Do you know any good youtube links that would give good examples of how to neg right or whatever?
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:07 pm ]
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and dont have respect for me
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I feel likeim saying the right things but my delivery of them is shit.
Your problem isn't being too much of an asshole, although being too abrasive can scare the cat, that's not your issue.

You know what your problem is already, you arnt captivating them, capturing attention, and commanding their respect by having a confident and smooth open. This is what normally and typically what causes bitch shielding and non-compliance with girls on opening. You are currently coming across as a low value guy who they can blow off, ignore, or scare away easily. Girls do this instinctively to men they perceive as lower value.

Look your target(s) in the eye, plant your feet, speak clearly, slowly, loudly, use other good body language as you open and approach and the majority of problems you posted here will disappear.

Assuming you succeed a this you can look forward to the next set of problems that arise.
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