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| Author: | Efergy [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 9:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Impossible to get passed the digits stage |
Hi everyone For the info i live in the south of France. This is a weird situation. I can't kiss a girl for the life of me. The last time I kissed a girl was 3 years ago. I do alot of day game and I approach easily without hesitation and most interactions go well and often i manage to get a number with the idea of meeting up for a drink. Women seem to generally just go cold on me as soon as im out of their sight. Either they: 1) Dont respond to sms's/calls/emails 2) Make lame excuses 3) Not actually turn up for a date Alot of them come up with the excuse "Perhaps we'll bump into eachotehr again" Ive reached the point where openings and conversations are going so well that I think to myself surely this can't wrong, but they all do. Im almost reaching the point where I think "whats the point, even appraoching it wont lead anywhere" Thankng you all in advance for your help Efergy |
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| Author: | wildcard98 [ Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:16 pm ] |
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well atleast you're aproaching,is better than nothing,try something you've never tried before,you're gonna hhave to risk it a bit higher,higher the risk,higher the outcome,if you fail again?,well you had nothing to loose,I'm from north mexico and let me tell you something buddy,culture's different that's all,don't blame yourself for trying,ADAPT,OPEN,ISOLATE and CONQUER. |
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| Author: | rdeffley [ Sun Jun 03, 2012 8:36 pm ] |
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Girls like to feel special and assume that they have made an impact on you. So why not use that against them? Make sure you get her to write her name and number down. Call her 3-5 days after getting it and say "Hi is this (throw in her name)? Then tell her your name and say " I was digging through my pants pocket getting ready to do laundry and I found a piece of paper with your name and number on it. But I can't remember where I met you from. " Then mention a few places you go asking her if she goes there w/ the place you met her second or third on the list. When she confirms that she likes to go where you met her, say "Well I was @ (insert place) Friday night, but I am drawing a blank. What were you wearing?" Then flirt, build some sexual tension, and tease her by saying that she will have to make a better impression on you when you two go out on (give day/time) Right away she will be thinking "Why didn't this guy remember me, why wasn't he attracted enough, etc" and she will feel a need to prove herself to you. Plus, if she thinks you have other women in your life when you act like you could have pulled a number anywhere, she will only try that much harder. If it backfires and she turns you down, you are no worse off than you were before. Besides you can always get another number. However, if you show her that it takes more than an introduction to make an impression on you, and you are not putting her on a pedestal, it could work out well for you. |
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