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Author:  Crix [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:04 am ]
Post subject:  Being more goofy or staying cool/laid back ?
Well I hope this section is a good place to post this kind of question.

I was just wondering, what do you girls prefer,,,the more kind of cool/laid back kind of guy,,,or the guys that are more goofy.

Im asking this because I was playing all cool till now,,,and I have been geting pretty good results(I have like 5 girls with wich I can go out whenever I please,,and 2 of them want a relathionship), but I have seen some guys, being all goofy and perhaps trying to get the attention of girls a bit too much,,,and it would seem to me that some of them even posibly have more succes than me?

I mean its not like I dont talk or flirt or kino or make them laugh, and all that,,,but they seem to know more girls than I do ?

Am I just worrying too much or are they posibly just friendzoned by all those girls because of such behaviour or what?

What do you guys think about this,,,do girls like more the cool atidute kind of guy,, or the goofy/clown kind of guy?,,,because I read somewhere that if you are being to goofy/silly with girls, they wont take you for serious and therefore wont consider you good bf material...

Thanks for any answers and insight. :D

Crix.
Author:  Eyyt [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 12:38 pm ]
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Be the 'warm' alpha, dude. Also, you can take a good look on the natural game section of this forum to know more about handling these types of problems. You can be cool and goofy at the same time. It is called Cocky and Funny. It is the best way to lead the group. Another is that you should talk to girls like you know them, that is another key for attraction. The point is, you get attention when you act like you always get it like, you are used to people liking you and you are used to be the "observed". it is a major step in becoming the alpha male.
Author:  startinglife [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 2:18 pm ]
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I have also wondered about this. I'm usually the funny one in the group, but I can be a bit loud and goofy doing impressions and I tell really good stories with lots of emotion, etc. I get girls to laugh a lot, but I wonder if girls really like this type? Most of my friends with really hot girlfriends are the quieter type and don't show much emotion (they are emotionally not reactive). I get these girls cracking up better anyone, but it seems like those quiet (controlled emotion) guys get the girl...
Author:  Crix [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 8:26 pm ]
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Yeah, I am being cocky funny, but as Eyyt said
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but it seems like those quiet (controlled emotion) guys get the girl...
,,,, thats my point, being too goofy isnt that good,,I think I read it aswell in David de Angelos "Double your dating" aswell.
Author:  musicandidol [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 2:53 pm ]
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I'm the goofy type and honestly I don't have problems picking up chicks. It all depends on being able to be serious when you are on the verge of making the move.
Author:  Crix [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 8:22 pm ]
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bump*
Author:  Valdemar1 [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being more goofy or staying cool/laid back ?
Quote:
Well I hope this section is a good place to post this kind of question.

I was just wondering, what do you girls prefer,,,the more kind of cool/laid back kind of guy,,,or the guys that are more goofy.

Im asking this because I was playing all cool till now,,,and I have been geting pretty good results(I have like 5 girls with wich I can go out whenever I please,,and 2 of them want a relathionship), but I have seen some guys, being all goofy and perhaps trying to get the attention of girls a bit too much,,,and it would seem to me that some of them even posibly have more succes than me?

I mean its not like I dont talk or flirt or kino or make them laugh, and all that,,,but they seem to know more girls than I do ?

Am I just worrying too much or are they posibly just friendzoned by all those girls because of such behaviour or what?

What do you guys think about this,,,do girls like more the cool atidute kind of guy,, or the goofy/clown kind of guy?,,,because I read somewhere that if you are being to goofy/silly with girls, they wont take you for serious and therefore wont consider you good bf material...

Thanks for any answers and insight. :D

Crix.
i think it is all about balance, you want to seem chill but at the same time you also want to be a bit goofy.. that being said i think that the best thing you can do is to feel what you would feel most comfortable doing, if you are a goofy guy by nature then be more goofy then chill and the other way around as well!
Author:  Crix [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 10:21 am ]
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Yeah,,,I agree its all about balance aswell.
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