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| Author: | Inertiatic [ Tue Jan 01, 2008 12:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | LMR- she wants to, but won't let herself |
Hey guys, I'm going to try and keep this short. I'm a university student and recently ran into an old high school friend that who had been seemingly in love with me for about 3 years. Nothing ever happened in HS because I had other girls on my plate at the time. Nevertheless, after running into her, we've met up a few times. DAY 1: I go over to her place, some stuff starts up, but she stops me saying that 'if it were anyone else it'd be different, but it's you..'. I know that I'm not in the friends zone with her, because she sticks to me like mud anywhere we go and is very touchy. Unfortunately for me, she wants me to be her boyfriend. Not gonna happen. DAY 2: A couple weeks later, she comes over to my friends place which I was house-sitting. This time, things go about further and as they are progressing I can see that she wants to have sex, but she's listening to her female intuition telling her not to until I commit. Finally, she tells me that she's scared it'll turn into a one-night stand and questions me briefly. After I reassure her somewhat, I freeze her out, saying that I don't want to make her uncomfortable. This was pretty effective, as she eventually jumped me not being able to hold out anymore- but still no f-close. Here's the problem. When I go out, she 'magically' appears and its affecting my game with other girls as her friends practically stalk me. I'm not the type simply cut ties once I close her, but she's not girlfriend material. So my question is two-fold. 1) How do I close her when I know she wants to, but is reluctant because she wants to turn me into a boyfriend, which I'm not willing to do accept. She's also really shy, and I pretty much had to initiate everything. 2) Should I just cut ties, as it's affecting my game with other girls? Inertiatic |
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| Author: | Augustus [ Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:45 am ] |
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Well if I were you I would cut ties or change your attitude, I'm not a big fan of one night stands with people who "matter" in your life, if shes looking for a boyfriend in you then she wants to connect on an emotional level before getting physical. She sounds like someone I would like to meet lol |
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| Author: | Inertiatic [ Tue Jan 01, 2008 8:43 pm ] |
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Thanks for your reply. To be honest I don't see her as someone who truly 'matters' in my life. I don't really feel any deeper emotional connection with her, otherwise it would be an ideal situation. It's just not there for me. I don't plan on it being a one-night stand and I'd still want to be friends with her, but I just wouldn't date her for a variety of reasons. Any other opinions? |
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