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Author:  E_R0CK [ Sat May 05, 2012 11:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Stuck on a K-Close, Advice and Insight needed
First off sorry its kind of a novel, I just don't know what is relevant and what isn't.

So I have been on two dates with this HB7. We had a great time the first time, I had her lauging the whole time, was running C&F mostly. I did kino escalation and K-Closed, didn't push it any further, she was playful/talking about what we will be doing next. Come the next day not txting me at all, and for about 4 more days. I text her, saying "Lets grab some chipotle (she looooooves it, stimulating her emotions) and watch some Family Guy (her favorite show)." She says cool, but says I assume family guy would be at her house, and she has a rule she won't go to a guys house until after about 4 dates. I tell her cool, we'll figure something out. Come the date once again we have a blast talking, I run C&F, I get into sexual talk she complies. I say lets go do something else and we go over to the Casino across the street. We play blackjack, the whole time she is initating kino on me, I reward her with some, but never for too long. We triple our money at one point, but leave at double. She has somewhere to be with her friends, we walk out to our cars, kiss (would make out but she was sick), and once again she talks about doing shit loads of stuff in the future. Next day again nothing in terms of communication.

Is this normal? Usually when a girl is digging me like that she is hitting me up. My problem is I suck at that line of showing interest in her and chasing her.

So I wait about 4 days again and shoot her a text,

Me- one of those playful really important question with lots of emotional stimulation, only to be do you like coke or diet coke.
Her- you sat their and typed all that for that question, lol
me - this is life and death, i need to know which one, our future depends on it
her - there is something wrong with you hahah, but its diet
me - dissapointing, youll have to work harder to keep me interested, lets go hike saturday (cinco de mayo, which she said she wanted to party with earlier) to offset all the drinking
her - shes gotten sicker its pretty ridiculous
me- Ill grab some soup, crackers, and sprite for you (not asking, being alpha)
her - no thanks, I got all I need
me - more soup for me! let me know if you need anything, dont hit your head on anything (inside joke for us), I need my good luck charm (since we won money)
her - lol sounds good I will

Once again silence , so I go out to the club last night (2 days after txts) that we both frequent. I was just practicing on opening and killing AA. I spot her walking around across the club but just ignore it (don't know if she spotted me yet, don't care it will show her preselection IMO). About midway through she goes to the bar right next to where I am standing around (looking for sets I haven't already opened). I walk up next to her plant and say whats up, ask her about her week. She plays off how she is sick, coughs (can't tell if it was forced) and says shes about to go home, I say cool. She iniates some kino and walks away. I end up deciding to leave and on my way out run into her (she was talking to her doorman friend, about to leave I assume.) I give her a hug and say let me know when you're feeling better, well go do something, she complies.

I just don't know what this means. What is your take on this guys?
Author:  E_R0CK [ Sun May 06, 2012 12:25 am ]
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Now that I am reading this and reflecting I think I still have some neediness. Any other suggestions to kill this, other than the obv go sarge more.
Author:  dukehoopz30 [ Tue May 08, 2012 10:50 pm ]
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Ok... i would agree you seem needy... but thats very fixable. Id stop talking to her for awhile... see if she every hits u up again. If she doesnt... then its on 2 the next 1. IF she is intersted she will hit u up ina few weeks. Be patient w her. your always asking to do things for her... buy her soup... hang out w her... every chump does the same thing. You have to be different... tell her your going to the bar and she can join if she wants... and if she says im busy then just dont respond... and dont ask her to hang out again. in the future learn from your mistakes.. girls like "bad boys" and guys that really dont give them a lot of attention bc it makes them (the girl) chase him (the bad boy). When she starts chasing u... then u know youre winning

gl
Duke
Author:  LBot [ Thu May 10, 2012 11:58 am ]
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Quote:
Ok... i would agree you seem needy... but thats very fixable. Id stop talking to her for awhile... see if she every hits u up again. If she doesnt... then its on 2 the next 1. IF she is intersted she will hit u up ina few weeks. Be patient w her. your always asking to do things for her... buy her soup... hang out w her... every chump does the same thing. You have to be different... tell her your going to the bar and she can join if she wants... and if she says im busy then just dont respond... and dont ask her to hang out again. in the future learn from your mistakes.. girls like "bad boys" and guys that really dont give them a lot of attention bc it makes them (the girl) chase him (the bad boy). When she starts chasing u... then u know youre winning

gl
Duke
I agree with what Duke mentioned about the neediness, how ever with the chasing game (getting her to chase you) I do not 100% agree, you need to find some balance.

I'm currently gaming a shy girl so it may be a tad different she is new to the city aswell.
I have had great response from her by not playing any games about waiting so long to text her back not making her always initiate, she genuinly thinks I care, I kind of do but i guess I've invested more time than I would like to have and it's contributing to oneitis.

Even though I have given her the frame by saying some pretty AFC stuff at times (intentionally) She is still assigning me higher value and returning control back.
Like stuff I have written I'm thinking to myself "wtf do you really think you should send that?" it seems to have paid off though.

Anyway Chief says some interesting things in his blog dated 20th of March.

Heres the link.

http://chiefpua.blogspot.co.nz/
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