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Author:  Siedways [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 5:19 am ]
Post subject:  Lots of numbers, no dates
Is it a lack of qualification/ comfort?
Btw these are all real numbers, so far, and all respond and start conservations which either get absurd in terms of roleplays, or i neg to hard or just have boring convo's that go no where.
What am I doing wrong here? Why are girls giving me their numbers if they don't want to chill....
Author:  Chief [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 12:05 pm ]
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Getting a phone number really doesn't say much. Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone you were not particularly interested in hanging out with talked to you for a little while, were not rude, and asked for your phone number? It's hard to say no.

You have to establish some sort of connection, attraction, intimacy, and/or intrigue (or whatever your style of pickup is) before getting her number in the first place. If whatever you create (like a connection) isn't obviously reciprocated, don't even bother going for the phone number. That phone number just ends up being dead weight in your mind.

Since you mentioned negging too hard, I'm guessing that you're trying to use Mystery Method, so it's very understandable that you're struggling in this phase. If you want to develop better connections with the women you're trying to hit on, you need to utilize a very different mentality from the one MM teaches. Instead of trying to impress her with negs and DHVs or whatnot, you should express a genuine curiosity about HER.
Author:  Redlight [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 5:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lots of numbers, no dates
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Is it a lack of qualification/ comfort?
Btw these are all real numbers, so far, and all respond and start conservations which either get absurd in terms of roleplays, or i neg to hard or just have boring convo's that go no where.
What am I doing wrong here? Why are girls giving me their numbers if they don't want to chill....
Hey man, I would keep the phone game short and alpha, simply telling her something in the line of "There's this cool lounge with live music, be ready tonight at 8 p.m. I'll pick you up..." Phone convos get the chance to be boring if you give it to them, by making them longer than they have to be... One more thing, I don't see the point in negging on the 2nd day over the phone, she should be attracted enough to you already... Maybe you could use some callback humour, I use this a lot, telling the chick I live in the suburbs and picking a certain suburb and telling her I cannot hang out with her anymore as I have to walk home from the club at 4 a.m. and it's about 20 miles... Use whatever you feel comfortable with and make sure she doesn't forget who you are... Hope this helps :-)
Author:  sheps [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:27 pm ]
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You can take this or leave it but, why not insta-date her. Find a girl you like hit it off with her and take her get a drink or whatevathefuck right then and there. Make it fun, move around a few places for example go get a coffee in starbucks but then take her to the park next to it.
That way not only are you on a date but by going to a few locations it seems like you guys had a lil adventure... I don't think you need me to tell you to be funny and make a connection blah blah etc etc.
Author:  225collegekid [ Tue May 01, 2012 6:57 am ]
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dude ive had plenty of numbers too and even situations where i had the girl gimme her number and no response....still a bit confused about that but to the point!

numbers do not mean anything. all they are is a way to get in touch with her. a girl will give you her number to feel good about herself, if she thinks your friends, if she doesnt know how to say no, if she doesnt want to hurt your feelings, etc. girls have so many reasons for giving you their number and have no intention of sleeping with you or going on a date with you. keep that in mind. once you have her number the game has just begun.

instead of just closing with "alright what is it". or "ok whats your number." always try and set up a date before you get her number. so towards the end of conversation be like you know what your pretty cool. what do you say we get coffee this thursday at 4:00. also try and be specific as possible. when she agrees say ok whats your number. usually i send her a text like right after saying, hey ____ (girls name), store this number with care, its a VIP number - _____ or just give her a call right then and tell her to store you in her adress book.

just keep in mind that numbers dont mean anything. try and focus on the interaction
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