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| Author: | bigblue [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 4:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Severe mental game issue |
I'm not sure if this happens to other guys but this issue is really causing me a lot of problems with my game. I can open pretty well and even escalate but when I feel like I've built attraction with a woman a switch goes on in my brain that tells me something like 'game over you've won.' It's as though merely seducing women and getting them to show signs that they are into me is enough for my ego. I've isolated women at my place had them on my bed and my brain would be like 'meh I'm done with you. new challenge.' You do not realize how frustrating this is especially when it's happened so many times over and over in the past year. Right now I am trying to find the root cause of the problem and I'm sure it's some type of anxiety or fear but I can't quite put my finger on it just yet. Any help would be very appreciated. |
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| Author: | doclift [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 6:29 pm ] |
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Realize the difficulty in additional challenges. Sure, you've got initial attraction down, but can you navigate her through LMR? Can you turn that into a meaningful relationship? Can you stay faithful in a relationship? Can you keep her stimulated in a long-term relationship? Can you hold down MLTRs? Can you close a bartender? Dancer? Model? Can you pick a girl up without saying a single word (try it)? The challenges are endless. You're claiming success too early in the interaction. Be creative and set new challenges for yourself. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 6:55 pm ] |
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You have a wrong mindset. Do not look at women as damn challenges for God's sake they're people. Just try having a good time together with them. Just once, try it! You will see how much fun it is to do it. You should never try fucking women to feed your ego, that's very unhealthy. You should do it just because it's good, and to make both you and the girl have lots of fun. |
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| Author: | bigblue [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 12:36 am ] |
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Thank you for the replies. doclift, I should want to go after all those things but there is some kind of mental block that is preventing me. Meaningful relationships are few are far between in my life compared to all of the superficial ones I've had. Maybe I have an underlying fear of meaningful relationships which is finally catching up to me. It's possible that all of my interactions are becoming more and more superficial and that's I don't want to pursue anything. The question is how do I stop? I will have to look into this further. In$tinct, I agree that my view is unhealthy and I am trying to change it. I appreciate your direct comment and its weird since I agree that fun has not been my priority as much as fucking has. |
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