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Author:  NightSky [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:27 am ]
Post subject:  approaching problems!
guys, I'm new 2 game. My major sp is I CAN'T OPEN ANY SET! Had this for almost 2 weeks now. Any help?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approaching problems!
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guys, I'm new 2 game. My major sp is I CAN'T OPEN ANY SET! Had this for almost 2 weeks now. Any help?
Go practice! go to any mall/shopping area, walk around, make eye contact, and just say. HI
Author:  225collegekid [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:00 am ]
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just hold eye contact with everybody men included and say whats up or hey or hows it going.

also you can stop random women and just ask em for the time then say ok thanks then leave. or pay them a legitimate compliment then say thats al i just wanted to let you know that. you'll see women are so easy to talk to if you dont have this akwardness or neediness that it'll come naturally.
Author:  Mikael Snow [ Mon May 21, 2012 12:30 pm ]
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What iv learned to do is you check out something that stands out maybe her watch or necklace and compliment it

Me: " hey that's a pretty cool watch "
She: " derp"
Me: " that's cool , so how do you know these guys ( if she's in a group) and introduce yourself

That way you can bail out when you get too nervous or carry on making conversation if it's flowing
Author:  NightRaider [ Mon May 21, 2012 4:36 pm ]
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The rejection-proof opener...

The functional opener: An opener that has a specific purpose within the given situation can both be part true and part plausible deniability of the artist hitting on the girl...

For someone starting out, and having difficulty approaching, this is the way to go. Is it boring? Yes. Is it likely to lead to attraction? No. But its a place that you can start just to go out and get used to talking to people.

Functional opener examples:
What time is it?
Do you know where the bathrooms are?
Do you know where's the nearest coffee shop?

Basically anything that serves a purpose, and think about it, can a girl really get mad at you for saying this? Imagine:

PUA: Do you know what time it is?
HB: Sorry i have a boyfriend

LOL obviously this isnt going to happen. Just ask stupid functional questions, say thank you and leave. After you do this for a while, try and start transitioning, but dont be surprised when that becomes a new sticking point. Please always remember, if you knock out your sticking points one by one without getting too distracted, you'll be working out the easiest way to get a threesome in to time at all.

Hope this helps
Author:  vcwriter [ Thu May 24, 2012 3:38 am ]
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The functional opener is easily one of the best ways to work on opening. Ask for directions.

You can also start opening people who HAVE to talk to you. Go to the mall, and every time you walk into a store, ask a salesperson for help. Try to ask different questions, just so you get stuck robotically asking the same thing to everyone. If you just get used to going off the top of your head with some harmless salespeople, you might gain some momentum and feel like talking to a complete stranger.
Author:  Sparroww [ Thu May 24, 2012 6:21 pm ]
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Stop being a pussy. Walk up to a girl, tell her she looked interesting/pretty/whatever and you wanted to come introduce yourself.

Opening isn't difficult, it's just a matter of not being a little bitch. 8)
Author:  funkyou [ Fri May 25, 2012 9:10 pm ]
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It's not easy till you make the first step! I tried for the first time last night, still learning and doing my best to overcome this AA. With practice makes perfect! Read up more if you can.
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