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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Opening to Strangers |
I need to get past this, its strange but when introduced to a woman I can work my magic but something holds me back when its a complete stranger. A problem I noticed about my self is that I am not really a fan of cheesy openers and also I am not sure what to do next after opening. Like I said all you need to do is introduce me to a girl and theres no problem. |
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| Author: | The Wild One [ Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:54 am ] |
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PM me for advice |
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| Author: | Fire [ Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:18 am ] |
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ice-cold man just stay away from cheese openers then just go up and talk with a simple "hey hows it going" or comment on something around you for example if your waiting to get a drink at the abr say something like "holy fuck it takes forever to get a drink, how long you been standing here for??" Just be natural man the rest will come |
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| Author: | BadOmn83 [ Thu Dec 13, 2007 6:44 am ] |
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Dude don't worry about the openers. Don't put too much thought into it. If anything just say "Hey" then move into something else. Transition with I just noticed something about you... |
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| Author: | PrettyBoy41 [ Thu Dec 13, 2007 9:23 am ] |
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approach anxiety. you can find help for this alll over the internet. |
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| Author: | nElss0n [ Thu Dec 20, 2007 4:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Agree... |
Right now i kinda have the same problem, with the difference that i know that i can open because i've done it before(before gaming). I like the advice that's been given here because i'm not really a fan of canned openers and/or other cheesy openers. The things that has worked in the past for me has probably been commenting things to a stranger like, "Hey is that a girl or a guy?", "you/that guy/girl looks like that guy/girl in the movie..." or some of the other things that has been mentioned. I guess i should just try out next time i'm sarging. The problem for me isn't that I feel anxious about approaching, I just don't do it... and i don't know why. It's almost as if there's some socially unwritten rule for me approaching strangers. So i'm gonna shut down my "anti-approaching" software next time and just approach. |
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| Author: | mozyFresh [ Fri Dec 21, 2007 6:37 am ] |
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Useaully if i do get AA i just go up and say somethin anyway. or i just say to myself 'what you doin man its nothing' give myself some inspirational advice and pull myself together and walk over. There's worst things that could than getting rejected, but if i dont you never know what could of happened. Its large groups and day game when i usually end flappin it. I spose over time i'll work it out. |
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