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Author:  xvxv3ndetta [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Going to my first public gathering on Dec 28th...
any suggestions?

It's going to be at a club somewhere downtown... but I've never been at a club!

I just turned 18 so things are going to be interesting from here on out.
I haven't' been able to practice any PUA routines in the field. Just by myself since I've been so busy.

Approach anxiety is not what I'm worried about. It's werid I know, this should be the hardest part for me but its not. What i'm not so sure about is making an impression that I'm an intresting guy. I am an interesting guy! I just dont know how to express it to... strangers XD.

Well, that's my story. All help will be GREATLY appreciated.
Author:  JSmooth [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 4:37 pm ]
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I understand your genuine concern about looking good, and like an interesting guy. Building social proof in a club or other venue isn't all that hard. Basically, what you need to remember is that when walking in follow the 3 second rule and roll from set to set working your way through the venue without breaks in between. You really establish yourself as the social person. Don't forget to befriend shooter girls, bartenders, go/go dancers, anyone who works there at all.
Author:  xvxv3ndetta [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:02 pm ]
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Cool cool.

Hhahaha, is it really possible for a guy with little to no expereince to pull anything off?

I seem to 'freestyle' things well, but I know that the amount of experience when it comes to being a social person makes me under qualified to succeed in this experience.

Yet, I'm still looking forward to succeeding in some form or way.
is there anything that I can do on my own to... be prepared for this?
I won't be able to field test myself before then, since my break isn't going to be anytime soon. Yet I feel I can pull something off.

Is it really possible with my lack of experience?
Author:  JSmooth [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:45 pm ]
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You bet you can do it! Since you don't have much problem opening sets, it will work out! Just go into the venue follow the 3 second rule 3-2-1-GO! and open a set with good energy and a :) . Take it as far as you can, eject when you feel you are loosing control. Then go to the next set. Above all else just have a good time!

To be prepared for this get use to saying Hello, with a grin to every girl you see between now and then with good eye contact. You don't have to get into a big converstaion just say Hi. It'll get you use to the approaching which you seem comfortable with. Plus you'll feel more social.
Author:  The Wild One [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:34 pm ]
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Just gotta get motivated to pick-up as many women as possible.
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