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| Author: | DonJuanGreaves [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 3:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Height 5ft 8" always an issue! |
Why is my height always such an issue for the women I'm attracted to? I always want to pull women between 5ft 7 and 5ft 10 but they seem to be put off by my height WHY?? |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 3:51 pm ] |
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You're not much shorter than me. This is an issue because you make a big deal of it. If a woman REALLY rejects you JUST because of your height, she doesn't deserve you. |
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| Author: | TheNaturalPlayboy [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:17 pm ] |
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Quote: You're not much shorter than me. This is an issue because you make a big deal of it. If a woman REALLY rejects you JUST because of your height, she doesn't deserve you.
Right! I'm 5'8 and a half and i don't think i have an issue regarding with your situation. it's all in your head man, cut that thing out. stop worrying. -TheNaturalPlayboy |
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| Author: | danthedan [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 8:33 pm ] |
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Despite their endless, almost compulsive claims not to be shallow, girls usually require guys to be at least their height (possibly in heels). Thankfully for guys there are plenty of fit girls in the 5 foot - 5'6" range (and below!). |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 9:11 pm ] |
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Quote: Despite their endless, almost compulsive claims not to be shallow, girls usually require guys to be at least their height (possibly in heels). Thankfully for guys there are plenty of fit girls in the 5 foot - 5'6" range (and below!).
BS. I know not one guy who is around 5'3"-5" and date women around 5'8"-6'2" You just have to be smooth and find a not so shallow girl. That's all.
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| Author: | The Birdman23 [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 9:33 pm ] |
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This is tip to use to turn your stature from a hindrance into an asset. Use it to qualify the girl. if she is taller than you say "man i would date you but you are just too tall for me, maybe if you were a few inches shorter, maybe" Basically do anything to turn the tables. Make it to where being short isn't a problem for you but being tall is a problem for her. Remember you are the prize. Make it her problem not yours. Hope this helps. Good luck. |
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| Author: | General Lamb [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 9:37 pm ] |
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I'm midway between 5'7 and 5'8 myself and I agree that this can make things a little more challenging, especially when high heels come into play. One thing I found useful was to look at people who were the same sort of height as me and who were successful anyway. Best thing to do really is embrace it, be proud of who you are and stand up straight, could always get yourself some cuban heels if you like anyway. 
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| Author: | DonJuanGreaves [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 12:33 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: You're not much shorter than me. This is an issue because you make a big deal of it. If a woman REALLY rejects you JUST because of your height, she doesn't deserve you.
Right! I'm 5'8 and a half and i don't think i have an issue regarding with your situation. it's all in your head man, cut that thing out. stop worrying. -TheNaturalPlayboy Right the issue here is I have had quite a few girls say to me your too small, so for a start it's not all in my head. secondly I don't get noticed by these girls when they are wearing shoes that are so big they are 6ft 2 but in reality they are my height. It is one thing that does knock my confidence and I'm resorting to pulling women I'd rather not be pulling. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 12:35 pm ] |
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Dude... Fuck those bitches. Do you really want to waste your time with so shallow women? Or do you want to sleep with them just because they're hot? Because that makes you JUST as shallow as they are. |
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| Author: | TheNaturalPlayboy [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 1:39 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: You're not much shorter than me. This is an issue because you make a big deal of it. If a woman REALLY rejects you JUST because of your height, she doesn't deserve you.
Right! I'm 5'8 and a half and i don't think i have an issue regarding with your situation. it's all in your head man, cut that thing out. stop worrying. -TheNaturalPlayboy Right the issue here is I have had quite a few girls say to me your too small, so for a start it's not all in my head. secondly I don't get noticed by these girls when they are wearing shoes that are so big they are 6ft 2 but in reality they are my height. It is one thing that does knock my confidence and I'm resorting to pulling women I'd rather not be pulling. You become insecure if women will tell you that you are small for them. That's your problem that you need to get rid of. -TheNaturalPlayboy |
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| Author: | WillDream [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 5:08 pm ] |
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I'm 5.5. It doesn't help, it's not much of a problem either. Sucks at concerts though! |
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| Author: | Wall1e [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 6:23 pm ] |
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6 ft here. Dude, 5ft8 is not a bad height. I see many guys who are way smaller to me, maybe even 5 inches, and still getting laid. Even someone wanted to beat me up when he was at least 3 inches. Get over it dude, you can't help it that you have that height. Stop caring about it, and if girls complain about it, you could say: is height really that much of a problem?!, then you don't deserve me. Ányway, find a girl who doesn't even care about your or her height, problem solved. |
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| Author: | Meldrum [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 12:52 pm ] |
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hey man, iv got friends like 5'6'' and they have no problem at all. Its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog. Look at Style, he is not tall at all and in my opinion is or was the best pua alive! If you have good game, size does not matter.
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 5:09 pm ] |
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5'7 here Generally speaking, women judge men pretty holistically. If you've got no money but have other great qualities like an irresistible smile or whatever, she can still be very attracted to you. Or, if you're fuckin short but your game is awesome, you can easily steal her from a tall dumbass who doesn't know how a vagina works. If a girl tells you that you're too short for her, here's what happened: 1. You failed to attract her because your game sucks 2. She tries to rationalize why she's not attracted to you with the first thing she is able to consciously notice: your height, or lack thereof. 3. You get the impression that your height is the issue. Personally I prefer girls my height or shorter, which really narrows down my options given my height lol but that doesn't mean I haven't had my fair share of experience with taller girls. Even if JUST your inner game is solid, you can get tall girls attracted and qualifying to you, saying shit like "I'm too tall" (sounds like they could be disqualifying themselves here but don't be fooled - they're fishing for your acceptance... of course this depends on their voice tone) instead of rejections like "you're too short." What I'm basically saying is quit whining and start practicing harder |
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| Author: | Jay86 [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 2:40 am ] |
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I think the problem is more likely to be your body language and your posture. Remember, back straight, shoulders back, chin in the air this will make you look and feel bigger. Give it a try Jay86 |
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