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Author:  DMN [ Wed Dec 05, 2007 6:01 pm ]
Post subject:  First approach, couldn't speak
This is how it happened:

Went out vith a female friend, sarging for the first time, but I had no guts
I drink two beer's (I know that was not a good idea, but it was the first time)
so I walked to the toilet and when going back made an eye contact with a HB7, but there was not something right.. (didn't get reaction I expected)
so a bit later she goes to the bathroom, and my friend tells me to go and ask her friend for a phone number, I went there, asked if she has a BF, she said no, and asked if she can give me her phone number and she said to ask her myself (I know it was not a good idea, but it was at least approach and I still have AA)
so when she got back I was just talking with my friend from college, and I saw they were prepairing to leave, I approached to her and a friend I asked before (others were preparing to leave)
I came up with an opener (true story):

ME: My friend is driving me home tonight, but she hasn't drive car alot, so can I trust her?
HB: yap yap yap

And then I didnt know what so say anymore (didn't think this far before approaching, so I left

BUT the problem was saying the first line, because I wasn't abble to say it correctly, I don't know why, but I just repeated some word three times, just wasn't myself, and couldnt speak normaly

Can anybody tell me how to fix that?

And what other stuff should I correct?
Author:  The Wild One [ Wed Dec 05, 2007 6:06 pm ]
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You need a story, and something interesting to add to a conversation pm me for help.
Author:  spyder2k [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 10:46 am ]
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Hi new around here too. Although I have not really opened any sets yet I'm trying to reprogramme myself out of AFC mode.

I find in general talking to women is not a problem for me as I will talk to anyone about anything. I will mess around with girls at checkouts in supermarkets, garages and at work. Not trying to game them but trying to talk to them and get out of AFC mode. It seems to be helping my cause.

During my research on PUA techniques I found a guy on Youtube with 2 audio clips. Listen to that guy from Bristol! He talks about how he get's chatting with everyone as he goes out sarging. Get in the mood for talking and the AA should be less of a problem. He also suggests to open a few sets of "Pigs" if you have to just to build up experience and get "warmed up" as such. When the ideal set with HB9 is there your warmed up and ready to go!

1st sarg for me is next week when I'm meeting up with a few old work collegues. Just need to sort my DHV story out really. :oops:

A little off topic. I went out to a local venue and met up with some friends. Now the female in the group I have known for years but conversation was usually minimal. I just hit her with a few negs here and there and I was seeing the IOI's. She initiated Kino! I left it. The girl behind the bar was a bit weird as I was chatting to her earlier.
Author:  KeepNitReal [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 7:09 pm ]
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wow. I don't even know where to start. wild one is a nice guy i'm sure he'll be a great help. I just say calculated practice makes you a lot better.
Author:  DMN [ Tue Dec 11, 2007 7:19 pm ]
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the problem is probably that I am not so good storyteller
Author:  deadman [ Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:19 am ]
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no offence bro..........well fucking become a good storyteller dude LOL
Author:  Alekc [ Fri Dec 14, 2007 12:17 am ]
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no offence bro..........well fucking become a good storyteller dude LOL
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