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| Author: | Lucifer [ Sun Dec 02, 2007 9:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | OWNED BY LMR(LAst Miunte Resistance) |
Ok so heres my story. I've always been a little nervous around girls but i still approached and talked to them. It was usually because i didnt give a fuck about any thing because i was always loaded on weed and lots of painkillers and antidepressants. So rejection was not an issue and i'd usually get a # close. Well ive sobered up now and started traning to fight MMA or w/e but the point is its like a new me . Im starting from scratch and wasnt able to find the confidence ionce had without drugs. That is until i found the communtiy. After being influenced by my oldest brother whos tenty three and the mystery show i decided to give it a shot. The situation was me chillen with this girl i knew. So i thought fuck it ill try and run what little game i know. So it was a three-set not including me a friend of mine and a chick he was with and of course the girl i knew. So i started with small talk and Told some DHV stories with my friend and was getting some IoIs from both girls. Running on what little i had pick upped from the show i focused on my friends girl causing my target to snuggle closer to me. So we took to the next room and i did a little negging with the girl and some kino escaltion. Now i had her, she was snuggled up to me i could feel her breast against me and there was a great connection. We left after a little and i said good bye(did not K-close) i know real AFC right? well im still learnin. Anyway next day she calls me over and says her parents arent home so i go over there. THis is were i believe i AFCed big time. We sat for an hour or so watching T.V. which i figured would give the impression that i wasnt just there for a rip n dip. She gets up undresses and puts on this corset on (she had mentioned it earlier). Now im gettin exited. Mentally though, physically i wasnt really gettin sprung(nervous maybe). I figured fuck it ill just pleasure her first till i get in the mood. So she sits on my lap and i take off the corset and lay her on the bed. I look up at her and start slowly going down to Take off her underwear and go down on her. BOOM LMR. She says no that she cant do this. Doesnt wanna feel like Whore ETc....And i just got all embarrased and started trying to explain shit asking if it was something i di Dlving a whole lot. I was just the apitimy of AFc. She ended up trying to comfort ME. God it was pathetic. Anyways what should i have done? It was my first time i was nervous Ithink i wasnt passionate enough hell i didnt even kiss her. Any advice? I mean bear with me here im not mister Ricco Suave im new to this. Its obious that the little tips i picked up from the Pua community are wHat got her clothes off in the first place. Any tips are greatly appreciated . Also its been like two months since this incident which was a real blow to my self-esteem. I just finished The game and i want to go and start sargin. help a brother out |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Dec 03, 2007 5:20 pm ] |
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LMR- When you're going down to do your thing; and she says, "I don't think we should be doing this..." Pause for a second say, "You're right we probably shouldn't..." Keep going. When the girl says, "No" it means No and it's time to stop. When she says, "I don't want to feel like a slut." I say, "I totally understand", and keep going until she says No. Then I will probably go into freeze out mode. Another approach, is when she does it like with any kind of kino escalation is the "Take One Step Forward, Two steps back" method. Try to go forward if you hit resist take a few steps back in the method and come back and try again. Too bad we can't get that night back and do it right, but there's always a next time. I hate to hear you DLV'd yourself afterwards but that's what I use to do too when I was struggling to get out of AFC mode. |
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| Author: | Casual [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 10:04 am ] |
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what you need to do is build more comfort. she doesn't want to have sex with you and FEEL like you're not going to see/call her ever again. so in that sense you do have to show your own interest (IOIs)... not just negs and DHVs because that's for attraction. but comfort to make you guys feel a stronger connection and that there's more to you than your stories. one way you can really help yourself is by talking about relationships in general. other PUAs might disagree with me, but i like to talk about relationships and how i enjoy the whole concept of going on dates, because you get to meet lots of people, etc. you need to get her comfortable with HAVING FUN. that's the key. so make yourself look outgoing and like you're not going to hurt her. show her that you enjoy her company and even tell her that. don't mislead her though. if you don't plan on getting into a long term relationship with her, you better not say something stupid like "i love you" or something. hmm.. i guess it's hard for me to explain because i naturally do all of this. i don't do it to sleep with them and leave, because all of it is the truth. i enjoy spending time with them, i enjoy having fun... i'm not ready to settle down, etc.. Then i talk a little bit about what they want, and i think i reframe things for them to agree with me. or i make my life sound so awesome that they WANT what i have, and maybe by having fun and doing the same things that i do.... they can be like me? something like that. |
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| Author: | Lucifer [ Mon Dec 10, 2007 9:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hey thanks guys |
Today(which is like almost 2 months mayb more since the incident) there was a renewed sense of interest shown by the target from my post. Please read my new post which will be in field reports to see my progress and drop me some suggestions. THanks. |
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