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Author:  Dalirious [ Mon Nov 26, 2007 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  She likes me..but is still holding back
hey guys, i recently hooked up with a HB8 and things have been going great between us. We've kissed multiple times, have f-closed and there is a high attraction and comfort between us. I always escalate, push-pull, build up sexual tension and pretty do it by the books...problem here lies that she's been with her bf for about 2+ years, but i can ttell theres some trouble in paradise..

My question is, how can i start pulling her away from him without making it obvious and without bringing down the bf and having her defend him. I know she lieks me, and something can come out of this. I just dont want to make needless mistakes that can really sabotage the relationship we've built. any suggestions/comments will be appreciated.
Author:  Starbuck [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 1:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She likes me..but is still holding back
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hey guys, i recently hooked up with a HB8 and things have been going great between us. We've kissed multiple times, have f-closed and there is a high attraction and comfort between us. I always escalate, push-pull, build up sexual tension and pretty do it by the books...problem here lies that she's been with her bf for about 2+ years, but i can ttell theres some trouble in paradise..

My question is, how can i start pulling her away from him without making it obvious and without bringing down the bf and having her defend him. I know she lieks me, and something can come out of this. I just dont want to make needless mistakes that can really sabotage the relationship we've built. any suggestions/comments will be appreciated.
You can't with any degree of certainty? Anymore questions?

I would let her know you are the alternative, then the ball is in her court.

In the meantime you should be cultivating more relationships with other women. It sounds like you're trying to have one-itis with a girl that needs to get her own head out of her ass.

One day it maybe you that's the BF, or worse the husband. :lol:
Author:  joven25 [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 4:31 am ]
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I agree that you sound one-itis, Dont get it to your head and heart. Just play with it, Do the best you can to seduce her and get her to bed. After you got her in bed, It doesnt matter anymore if she will choose you or her BF. Remember, You need to play more on other women man.
Author:  PrettyBoy41 [ Tue Nov 27, 2007 8:30 am ]
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dont be afraid to talk to her about it. if you have built an emotional connection on top of your physical one, it can come across as if you really care about her well-being and hope she is ok, as long as you things are ok in a sinsere way. but dont ask right after sex. then just the standard boy friend destroyer. takes a little time, but the break down is almost structured. basicly you find a flaw. agree, tell her its really unfortunate that things are like that. maybe relate a story. then suggest one possible way to fix it (to build trust, and seem like you dont want to break them up) and then suggest she find someone that can make her happier then the guy she is with. be subtle. and then next time you see her, ask if things have improved. if not, reiterate that you think she would be better off finding someone that can take care of her, but go easy on the kino when you do, otherwise it may seem like your insinuating, and we dont want to insinuate at this stage, we want to appear honest and full of love lol.

good luck, hoped this helped,

PB
Author:  Dalirious [ Wed Nov 28, 2007 7:37 am ]
Post subject:  i agree
i agree, i do feel like im getting "one-itis" and the sad part is, that she's not totally mine right now either..which is to my benefit, because im not the one thats committed and emotionally invested in her, but the other part is, that im beginning to. i think i need to get out there and have a good few weekends of sarging with my buddies to get it out of my system a little, and as it was previously stated, "present myself with DHV that im a desirable man by other females." I do feel like i haven't presented myself as too much of a challenge these past few days (as i have hooked up each day all weekend long). I'm going out with her next weekend, and im thinking after that, i may sort of freeze her out a little, not too a high degree but make myself less available for too much chit chat. I do want her at some point, but as of right now, I do feel like my game and self confidence has improved..

for example, this past weekend i went out to a friends bday at a restaurant, and I knew a certain girl was going to be joining us. I've had a history with her in the past (before i knew about the game) and presented myself as desperate. However, this night, i ignored her for most of the night, and i presented a DHV by my appearance and my personality. I was alpha-male and it showed. She was constantly glancing over and she made the first approach to say hi.

and with another girl i've had a history with, a few weekends ago, i was at another friends bday at a bar this time, and i was with my social circle. this hb6.5 showed up a little late, and by then i had already drank and was on the dancefloor dancing with a hb8. i maintained a strong frame around her and was once again center of attention. and it showed. I ignored her the whole night til we were leaving, where she turned around to say hi, and i was like "hey ____, i didnt see you come in..." and we left.

What you guys think i should do about both situations. the first girl (from the restaurant) is on facebook but i havnt added her, the second hb6.5 is on facebook as well, and is my friend. any ideas/suggestions would be great.
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