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| Author: | D Diesel [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 7:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Planning the great weekend. Please help with multiple LDRs |
The best part of my career is that I spend a lot of time traveling. I have worked this into my game by maintaining a couple LDRs in several cities. So my usual routine is to let them know I am coming into town, finish up any business on Friday, and stay through the weekend with the LDR. Now its been repeated often enough that face to face contact is extremely important, and I know that no matter what happens, it's these in-person week ends that define the relationship. What I am looking for is advice on 3 separate areas. 1. Prepping her for my arrival. Making her desperate to see me. 2. Being at my best throughout the 2 - 3 days. Anyone can maintain for a few minutes in a bar, but lasting through the weekend can be rough. 3. Leaving her with the desire for next time. I have managed to maintain so far. But in my eyes I see a HUGE difference between maintaining and excelling. Any comments are greatly appreciated Thanks Diesel |
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| Author: | ZiggyH [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:04 am ] |
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If you are maintaining I will say stick to what works. Dont feel this is a performance because you will exhaust yourself and drain your ability to remain relaxed and focused once in a while let them know you have a surprise for them cut the weekend short sometimes because you have important things in your life that must be done but dont be specific about them and dont answer or change the subject if they suggest your going to see another girl. if you do this then once in a while do something special for them so you remain unpredictable |
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| Author: | Samurai209 [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:18 am ] |
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Exactly right, your not going to be able to maintain an act for a whole 2 or 3 days. This is where your true self comes through. Entertain yourself, play games, do stupid stuff, crack jokes. Chances are if you bring her along for the ride, and your having a good time, so will she. Its all about frame. As for the making her excited with anticipation, a flirtacious text a few days before hand can get things flowing. But as for the leaving her wanting more? Thats all down to your performance my man. |
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| Author: | ZiggyH [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 9:26 am ] |
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i agree mate. stick to the simpple stuff so she feels comfortable enjoying your company and doesn't feel she needs to compete |
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