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Author:  Royal R [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 5:56 am ]
Post subject:  Troubled background DHV routine
So, I’ve decided to pioneer my own DHV technique. I think it can work on girls that have very high morals, and has a higher belief system of no sex before marriage.

I’ve been recently gaming this girl at work, who has a higher belief system of no sex before marriage, and I’ve been acting cocky all the time. However, I’ve recently starting to hint that my cool, calm exterior is a front, and that I am actually a sweet guy. (Which I am) It’s been working alright. I think the important part is to make the girl feel as if she’s making you change, and that you’re a mystery that she wants to solve.
I have been playing the question game described in MM, and it has worked wonders. The girl I was gaming was having a lot of trouble opening up to me, and it has really opened up doors to building comfort. I mentioned something about the fact that I used to be in foster care, and the next question she asked me was to explain my life.
I coolly replied “I’d rather talk about this in person”
Now, the only part I’m going to have trouble with is telling my story without sounding like a little bitch. I want to build empathy, not pity. So the important thing will be to talk slower, and make sure we are isolated. I think I’ll pull her away when she brings it up.
The next thing I’ll do is make sure to progress my troubled past to an issue in the present. I’m going to talk about the relationship I have with my mother, and say that’s why I have such trouble with letting my walls down. With this particular girl, I am going to need to express how special and rare it is for me to be telling her about it.
The objective is, by the end of this routine, I should have built enough trust, comfort and mutual respect that she will feel as if she is a part of my life, that she feels special, and that I’ve told her something I have never told anybody before.

What do you guys think? Obviously I still need to field test this a couple times, but I really think that it can work.
Author:  Indie00 [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 6:15 am ]
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Now, the only part I’m going to have trouble with is telling my story without sounding like a little bitch. I want to build empathy, not pity.
Talk about how it really was, and how you've GROWN from that experience.
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So the important thing will be to talk slower, and make sure we are isolated. I think I’ll pull her away when she brings it up.
One thing, don't wait on her to bring it up. You bring it up!
Women are in a passive mind state, for all practical purposes anyway.
You can't wait for her to bring it up.
Say "Hey, come with me, I want to tell you about my life"
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The next thing I’ll do is make sure to progress my troubled past to an issue in the present. I’m going to talk about the relationship I have with my mother, and say that’s why I have such trouble with letting my walls down. With this particular girl, I am going to need to express how special and rare it is for me to be telling her about it.
Slippery slope, you don't want to come of as too willing to emote. That's needy.
Like I said before, you need to add how you've grown from all that bullshit.
Apply that growth to your present situation.
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The objective is, by the end of this routine, I should have built enough trust, comfort and mutual respect that she will feel as if she is a part of my life, that she feels special, and that I’ve told her something I have never told anybody before.
That's way in the delivery. Delivery! Delivery! Delivery!
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What do you guys think? Obviously I still need to field test this a couple times, but I really think that it can work.
Do it man. The only mistake I see from field testing this, and now that your going to be aware of it, don't even sweat it, but if your saying the same story/ routine over and over, it eventually takes the emotion out of it, you need to make sure you keep the emotional content, not sound like it's rehearsed.
Author:  Royal R [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 11:19 am ]
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Thanks, I really like what you said about being proactive in bringing it up, and I will definitely do this.
I have done everything to make sure I'm not willing to emote too easily, and I think that's why its exceptionally important to come off as cocky, even arrogant, while building attraction up to this point.
Talking about the growth is good. This means I'll be perceived as a dynamic and mature individual.
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