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Author:  KokoLoco [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 2:25 pm ]
Post subject:  What to do when you're not in control?
Hi Everyone,
I'm wondering.
What would you in case you had a FB that only comes when SHE can, and not the other way around? (meaning, every time I call and invite her over, she is not interested or busy)

I find it kind of annoying when I'm not in control. I thought I should blow her away with some excuse that would make her jealous , like "I'm going with my (female) friend to a party today, so we can't hook up tonight" but every time she asks if she could come over, I give up (The sex is great and I can't physically say no to her ... ;)) and say yes.

What would you do, in order to regain control?
Author:  SiNfUl [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 3:37 pm ]
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Kind of annoying when you're not in control? That would drive me insane.
You need to control the dynamic from the very beginning KokoLoco.
In this particular situation, I would simply just disappear for a while. Cut off all contact from her, IF you can handle it. I say IF because you stated that it's difficult to say no. That my friend is a HUUUUUUGE mistake when dealing with women.
Nothing has a stronger impact on a woman than a man that can say NO, and turn her down.

Her: Can I come over?
No: Sorry, I have plans, maybe next week.

Now, you can't just say this and hope she will come chasing you. It's vital that you actually make plans with other people (especially woman) and get this girl out of your skull. Make it a priority to meet other women. Hell, build your self a small stable if you can. The more options you have, the less emphasis you will place on any one particular girl.
Author:  Genium [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 5:22 am ]
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Kind of annoying when you're not in control? That would drive me insane.
You need to control the dynamic from the very beginning KokoLoco.
In this particular situation, I would simply just disappear for a while. Cut off all contact from her, IF you can handle it. I only say that because you stated that it's difficult to say no. That my friend is a HUUUUUUGE mistake when dealing with women.
Nothing has a stronger impact on a woman than a man that can say NO, and turn her down.

Her: Can I come over?
No: Sorry, I have plans, maybe next week.

Now, you can't just say this and hope she will come chasing you. It's vital that you actually make plans with other people (especially woman) and get this girl out of your skull. Make it a priority to meet other women. Hell, build your self a small stable if you can. The more options you have, the less emphasis you will place on any one particular girl.
+1 And this works for pretty much ANY girl :) Even for me, being in a more serious relationship, it still works, when I find I dont have as much control, I do stuff like this, and boy, it works wonders :)
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