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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue May 24, 2011 4:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I plan on making her chase me |
Rundown:2 days ago,I Facebook chatted then # closed an HB 9.5(we have mutual friends). Vibes started lukewarm then heated up yesterday as we Facebook inboxed for almost the whole day. Ok guys,I know that's 1 of the fundamental-community rules I'd violated(seeming to have nothing better to do),but I winged it pretty ok. At the end of the evening,we texted(via phone)for an hour,bla,bla, bla... There's no doubt she's interested and attracted. But after the whole day yesterday of communicationg back and forth,I dont want to risk fuccing it up by not being scarce. So I want to lay back and see if she will commit(contact me first). Not even that-I want to ease up for a day or two,then pop up again. But Im unsure if I had built enough attraction to afford to go missing for a day or 2. Is 1 day of communication(texting,online chatting)enough to build enough attraction to make her want to chase? Or should I keep dishing out materials(attraction)for few more days then give her space? In person is different:I can attract a girl within 10 min.then lay her later on with a SNL. But online gaming(to phone gaming)has been my downfall. It's hard for me to tell when is enough attraction,opposed to gaming the target face to face where I can gauge her body languge. So,should I give her space yet after 1 day of communication,or would it be too premature? |
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| Author: | squarelife [ Wed May 25, 2011 6:11 am ] |
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As a general rule in pickup, every approach is always risking fucking it up. Buts its also an excellent opportunity to meet amazing beautiful women. Its seems like you're putting alot of thought into things you really dont need to put that much thought into. dont overwhelm your brain man. I'm pretty sure you've heard this before but, attraction is really hard to develop though text and back and forth messaging. At some point you're going to need to call her up and set something up to meet face to face. As far as the back and forth messaging goes, just message her back whenever you feel like it. Dont send your mind into hyper drive thinking you need to leave X ammount of days between contact in order to build attraction. The key is to remain consistent but not needy. Needy IS a major attraction killer. My advice would be to surprise her by calling her up on the phone and shoot the shit for a while. Then set up a play date. Think about it man, if you want this girl, you're gonna have to have some kind of face to face interaction at some point |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Wed May 25, 2011 1:20 pm ] |
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I totally agree Squarelife. I've been over thinking this. But yesterday I decided to not wait on perfect timing so I continued game on. I called her last evening but(lol)... |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Wed May 25, 2011 1:33 pm ] |
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This' the update from yesterday. Im basically pointing out the mind-fuckery that women go through. She told me she was totally single,free & indpendent. Yesterday,I got a call from a strange guy asking,"who's this"? With some psychology,I got her to confess that it was her bf(lol)but they are not really together(lol). But earlier that day,she'd told me she had no bf and she's totally single!! For her to lie like that is good for me;I now see that she has no true allegiane nor respect for her boyfriend. So knowing this,Im ramped up my seduction a lot,knowing that she doesnt value her bf. I never called her out on lying about a bf-I really dont care. I just said to her(via text),"Wow,your bf seems really threatened by me.Tell him Im your gay-ugly friend who you'd never sleep with". She lmao in her reply. So basically,I think she's given me the green light to escalate rapidly. Irony is,she works in a government complex in which my wingman/best friend works also. So I plan on visiting my wingman today,then pretend to bump into the HB9.5,then get the KINO on the way. She cant say Im stalking her since I'd already told her that my best friend works in the same complex as she does,and I usually visit him twice weekly. I'll update yall soon. |
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| Author: | mushahid980 [ Mon May 30, 2011 10:19 am ] |
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great |
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