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Author:  aaronrodgers [ Sun Mar 13, 2011 10:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Routines for girls who open you/bar game

At bars it is quite apparent what girls do when they see someone they are interested in. There is the classic rub against you when walking by or my favorite step on your shoes when passing through (actually how I met an ex). However, are there any good routines to run when a girl opens you?

In a similar situation a girl said that a bartender made her buy several drinks because she was below the minimum for a tab so she bought a beer and a shot for my friend and I. I took this as an IOI. However I did not know how to open her. Should I be very welcoming or less? Also how much eye contact should I make? If she starts talking to my friend how do I turn the convo back to me?

I can feel my game improving a lot but I am still having trouble in situations such as this.

Author:  Roberto Rey [ Mon Mar 14, 2011 8:36 pm ]
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Hey, this is my arena! . ALWAYS carry a light even if you dont smoke. I learnt this the hard way. Taking the lighter out will give you some seconds to think about something instead of just saying "sorry, I dont have one"

I'm looking forward for this too. I actually found the seduction comunity by looking for hooking lines for when situations like these happened to me since I almost always screwed it

Now if it happens what I do is I inmediately jump to an opinion opener (even if she is approaching or opening me) because it gives me time to think what's my next move.

What I can share with you is the way they approached me/ opened me for you to be ready if this happen to you someday.

Note: In clubs, they approach me much more when I'm alone, that when I'm with friends, and they are usually younger girls. I think it's because they are shy and if they see a man alone it's more likely for him to not reject them due to the fact he's alone, so if I happen to be with friends in a club, at some moment I always take a walk for the whole venue pretending Im going or returning from the bathrooms.
I was never approached by an ugly girl. They were always 7 to 9. I think a pretty girl is more confident she cant be hardly rejected than a girl who is not.

Note 2: even if they just jump over you, if you go right to the point, it's going to backfire you. You still have to progressively escalate emotionally and physically

the way they approached/opened me

- Do you have a light? (the most usual)
- Are you in a rockband?
- Hi. I like your hair. how do you keep it like that?
- Hi. I'm Celeste. I like you.
- My friend over there likes you. Go talk to her.
- (a girl next to another) hey, your girlfriend is here (pointing to her friend). Why arent you taking care of her?
- hey, let's take a photo!
- non verbal opening - girl doing a sexual dancing and getting closer and closer and next to you.
- ass rubbing and bumping you with her ass when they are looking away of you (this is very usual from young hot girls in the dancefloor if they really like the way you look or behave)

In daygame, they just say HI! and if you arent prepared you freeze.

At first when these things happened to me I thought they were fooling with me, but
even when they might want to frame it as fooling for not being seeing as easy, sometimes when things happens you confirm they really were attracted to you.

Author:  zebraG [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 7:27 pm ]
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Quote:
Hey, this is my arena! . ALWAYS carry a light even if you dont smoke. I learnt this the hard way. Taking the lighter out will give you some seconds to think about something instead of just saying "sorry, I dont have one"
One that the Oz bloke (daygame PUA chap from youtube) recommends is to carry a box of matches with only two matches.
"I've got some matches if they're any good?"
HB - "yeah"
"Thing is, I've only got two. What makes you special enough to deserve one of my last lights? I mean, what happens when we get stuck out in a freak snowstorm when I'm walking you home and I have to light a fire to keep us warm?"

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