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Author:  bowlie [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 5:38 pm ]
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ok so im nearly finishing 'the game'. great book. but i keep hearing about DHV, the thing is all it mentions are cold readings and stuff. not what it is. i know its showing you are a high value person but what makes you a high value person. i think the closest ive got to figuring it out is showing you understand her with cold reading gives you dominance and higher social status over her.

so is high value the same as high social status? what things make you seem higher value?

Author:  FunkyFresh [ Sun Dec 26, 2010 2:02 am ]
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DHV= Demonstrating Higher Value

Value is important when attracting a woman. You want to appear high value because that will make you more attractive in her eyes. Some things that demonstrate higher value are: Being adventurous, appearing wealthy fun an well-groomed, Having a lot of friends (big social circle), ALWAYS BEING CONFIDENT,(maybe a hint of cocky, depends who youre talking to), being decisive and other qualities that make you more attractive to a woman. And yes high value means high value in a social perspective.

Value can be demonstrated in numerous ways. You can tell a story about your adventures, groom yourself well before going out, having your phone out and people texting and calling you, in other words, WALK THE WALK AND TALK THE TALK

Author:  HappySlip [ Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:47 am ]
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DHV is just being a man, I know that the book tells you to do NLP, ESP tricks, Kino, and other things, but it all comes to how much of a man you are. You never let a woman take control, make you wussbag, needy, or give any sort of validation. This my sir is what DHV is all about.

Author:  Sorcerer [ Wed Dec 29, 2010 11:14 pm ]
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What may that book be HappySlip?

Author:  HappySlip [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 5:26 am ]
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What may that book be HappySlip?
haha try the Bible

Author:  Sorcerer [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 6:54 pm ]
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That's cute. Really.

Author:  HappySlip [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 8:13 pm ]
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That's cute. Really.
Are you serious? Cuz I can recommend you a book a really good one too....

Author:  Lava [ Sat Jan 01, 2011 12:20 am ]
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Ways to DHV in no particular order

Show the following:

- CONFIDENT (MUST)
- Class in dressing up (understand fashion)
- High social status (loved and have many friends)
- Preselection (have exe's, the hotter the better, or be surrounded by women)
- Leader of men (Sports captain, campaign leader, etc)
- Have a good sense of humour
- Protector of loved ones
- Financially secure (dont show cheapness, but careful, dont pay for her if you dont know her)
- Powerfull and connected (people not minding doing you favours)
- Safe (not a trouble maker)
- Fun loving and positive about things (passion and ambition, smiley)
- Not needy, this is very very very important
- Don't get offended by what others think of you
- To some level, show that you're a little hard to get (e.g. If she touches you, ask her to get her hands off you, do it with a smile)

Author:  Andy Nice [ Sat Jan 01, 2011 1:06 am ]
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Ways to DHV in no particular order

Show the following:

- CONFIDENT (MUST)
- Class in dressing up (understand fashion)
- High social status (loved and have many friends)
- Preselection (have exe's, the hotter the better, or be surrounded by women)
- Leader of men (Sports captain, campaign leader, etc)
- Have a good sense of humour
- Protector of loved ones
- Financially secure (dont show cheapness, but careful, dont pay for her if you dont know her)
- Powerfull and connected (people not minding doing you favours)
- Safe (not a trouble maker)
- Fun loving and positive about things (passion and ambition, smiley)
- Not needy, this is very very very important
- Don't get offended by what others think of you
- To some level, show that you're a little hard to get (e.g. If she touches you, ask her to get her hands off you, do it with a smile)
DHV is meaningless... men automatically DHV by showing confidence. IF you ARE of high value, there is NO need to demonstrate characteristics of it. She will notice. While you talk with confidence you appear funny, sarcastic, witty, cocky and successful.

THOSE are the basic characteristics of DHV's achievement. If you can achieve all with confidence... you don't risk boasting and ruining the attraction. If you leave social proofing and DHV out, you can in turn complete them just by professing social awareness.

Why push this envelope? Create rapport, generate a connection and most importantly, keep an air of confidence about you and it all falls into place DAY 1.

Verdict= Dont waste time overthinking DHV strategies, you place yourself in a position of being on a pedestal that no one can own up to. You are aware you are the prize... she will too!

Author:  bowlie [ Sat Jan 01, 2011 7:52 pm ]
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That's exactly what I was looking for, thanks. Need to get me some of that there social proof.

Author:  MyNameIsCanada [ Sun Jan 02, 2011 3:27 pm ]
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I wouldn't totally ignore all those strategies: they're a good way of faking alpha.

For a little background, all our social instincts are calibrated to survive in stable tribes of about 100-150 people. ie, in your whole life, back in the day, you'd never meet more than 150 people!

Back in a stone-age tribe, social status was based on real things, like how many allies you had, and how good you were at things like hunting and fighting other tribes with spears and clubs and shit. Whatever social status you ended up at, it was important to keep acting according to that status, or somebody would come and kick your ass. Studies of the remaining stone-age tribes in places like the Amazon have shown that AMOGging your actual tribal leader is a pretty good way to end up dead, so we've evolved some fairly strong instincts against doing it.

Now, because of this, whenever we meet new people, we look for indicators in their behaviour that tell us what their social status is. They will reliably broadcast low, medium or high social status, even though if they just broadcast high status all day they'd be more successful. This is because meeting new people was quite uncommon thousands of years ago, and because broadcasting fake social status to your tribe leader's cousin from another valley was a good way to get murdered.


So, the key is to retrain your brain into thinking that you are the alpha male of your non-existent tribe. This is what inner game is all about. And one of the best ways to retrain yourself is not affirmations, or hypnosis, or any of that shit.

It's going out and being an Alpha Male.

If you have to use fake routines and shit to trick people into thinking you're an alpha male, then that's fine, but just keep in mind why you are doing it: you're not trying to trick them, you're trying to trick your own reptile instincts.

Likewise, any time you get AMOGged, in any social circumstance, and you don't do anything about it, that's a very bad thing for your inner game. I don't care if some guy is tailgating you on the highway, and you feel like you're getting in his way, so you start speeding when you wouldn't have otherwise. Don't let it happen! Ever!

Being the AMOG isn't about club routines, it's a way of life. You have to believe that if the apocalypse came tomorrow, and we all went back to the stone age, you would be able to fight to take your rightful place as tribal leader! You are Bill Clinton with a big fuckoff spear, in a smelly bearskin telling the Bush tribe to get their own fucking valley! Yup, if 150 people would follow you around and take orders from you after a nuclear war or zombie apocalypse, then you've got your inner game under control.


Before I leave, I'll add one more story. This one is really good.

Some evolutionary psychology researchers wanted to pin down just how females decide who is a high status male and who isn't, and they had a theory that smell could have something to do with it.

So what they did was they recruited the MIT Model Railroad Club. These guys are the biggest nerds you've ever met, no social skills at all. Google a photo of them; I doubt they could even get into a club.

However, the researchers didn't ask them to interact with women. Instead they had them wear tshirts, nonstop for two days, and then put them in a ziploc bag. The researchers then took the smelly tshirts and had women sniff test them and decide which had the best body odor.

You can probably guess who smelled best: the club president, closely followed by the club executives.

So if you teach your brain that you're the AMOG, not only will your game improve, but you'll smell better too.

Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Thu Jan 06, 2011 3:09 am ]
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DHV is just being a man, I know that the book tells you to do NLP, ESP tricks, Kino, and other things, but it all comes to how much of a man you are. You never let a woman take control, make you wussbag, needy, or give any sort of validation. This my sir is what DHV is all about.
amen!

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