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Author:  Le Loup [ Wed Nov 17, 2010 2:31 pm ]
Post subject:  This bitch just kept cockblocking me
I met 2 girls the other night in a club (I actually vaguely knew one of them but its not important). Basically one of them was into me and we danced, made out, etc.

Her friend however took every opportunity to take her away from me that she could find, at which point the two of them would just dance facing each other while dumbass guys tried to indirectly dance up to them. Needless to say the HB kept coming back to me.

After a while I got bored of the bitchy friend and went to talk to another girl. 5min into the conversation the bitch came up to me again and cockblocked me there as well, saying some bs and dragging me away. Then she ditched me again and went to her friend.

After the club closed I BARELY managed to convince the HB to come back to my place despite A LOT of resistance from her friend. The friend came with us (I couldnt exactly say "no you cant come" since that would wreck my own chances). At my place they drank and HB was pretty much all over me. The friend kept saying shit like "Are you gonna fuck this guy you just met?" and "You are too drunk to make decisions" (she wasnt very drunk at all). After like 2 hours of this shit the bitch gave up and left and i did f-close the HB. Her friend was knocking on the door a few times after she left as well, I didnt open. Probably could have screwed things up by not opening but she just pissed me off real bad.

At one point I actually took her aside in the club and asked "whats ur deal?" she replied "You think your such a player"

How do I stop this happening in the future? Is there any way to disarm bitchy friends early on? She wasnt attractive btw so none of my friends wanted to take her off my hands.
Author:  Shawoo [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 4:40 pm ]
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Haha, sounds like her friend is jealous, and what a bitch, seriously she is dumb and jealous, you should run game on her and hint that you'd give her attention to later if she behaved
Author:  Lucky Luciano [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 3:17 am ]
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Always disarm your potential cockblocks by paying more of your attention to them first, rather than your target. Charm the potential cockblocks before making any moves on your target. You will disarm them, while at the same time you'll be stirring up a little jealousy in your target. Once you get the potential cockblockers on their good side, then proceed to make moves on your target. Which works out great, jealousy is a powerful emotion, so she should feel the need to grab YOUR attention.
Author:  Lorenzo321 [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 8:11 pm ]
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First off mate, you did an amazing job dealing with these girls. You have two unique situations simutaneously happening to you in this sarge. You have the bitchy "mother hen" who was clearly over-protective (to an unusual amount) and you have the girl that was so into you (because of your game or she was just that horny).
The best advice that I could give you is to have a designated wingman for occasions like this. Your wing has to be able to sacrifice sometimes for your gains. He does not need to do anything with that granade, but he should act like he wants to to keep her occupied. This bitch clearly wanted your (or another guy's) attention. She needed it and if she did not have it, she thought her friend should not have it either. Cheers to your game though.
Another advice that I would give you is to not come off too much like a player to the obstacle because she may want to protect her friend from such guys. That could have been her motive. You must have set-up the frame well because usually girls listen to their girlfriends--ur TGT did not, so good job.
I would have isolated and spoke about it to her and let her know how you are not usually like this (so forward and advancing) so that the TGT does not think that you are a player as the obstacle mentions. I would even put the obstacle on the spotlight by saying that you are not a player and you get the vibe that the TGT does what she wants even if others say not to--say you love that about her. Subconsciously she will behave in a way that goes against her friend, pleasing you.
Author:  doctamic [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 10:34 pm ]
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See obstacles for what they are-mental mirages

i think you handled this well, i mean your girl shoulda helpd you a bit by reprimanding her friend and saying that she cant handle her drink but these obstacles are always ganna happen you just gatta brush them off one by one, and keep
removing whatever obstacle sprung up
Author:  Cherry37 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:37 pm ]
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This is what I am afraid of with UFFs. When you start your game to disable, they take it the wrong way then suddenly you have the hanus girl telling her friends how she wants to bang you, then the group tries bumping you off on her because you talked to her and she never gets play. This leads to major amounts of cock blockage as you game HB. Its not doable its just annoying as hell. What do you do?
Author:  BrianTampa [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 3:22 am ]
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If you can charm the "mother hen" then you get let into the henhouse :)
Author:  BrianTampa [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 3:34 am ]
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This is what I am afraid of with UFFs. When you start your game to disable, they take it the wrong way then suddenly you have the hanus girl telling her friends how she wants to bang you, then the group tries bumping you off on her because you talked to her and she never gets play. This leads to major amounts of cock blockage as you game HB. Its not doable its just annoying as hell. What do you do?
I've had this also. Every situation is a little different but I would suspect that you were being spied on by the others and the HB of the group rejected you before you could properly game her.

I actually got "bait and switched". I hit on this blond who looked like Cameron Diaz. She pawned me off on her friend, who wasn't bad but I wanted the other one. Basically I got rejected by the hot one and took the other because she was kind of sexy and friendly.

In your case, you had no intention of banging the one they pawned you off on so you got nothing.

I think all you could do at that point was realize that you were already rejected by your target and just move on.
Author:  Le Loup [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:49 pm ]
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This has been happening to me a lot lately so here is how to handle it;

1. Social proof is everything, always be centre of attention, alwaysbe having fun, lot of energy, dance etc. Talk to a lot of girls before going for the target.

2. never open the target, open the friend no matter how ugly. Dont flirt with her too much, just grab attention. Then, WALK AWAY, find a reason to do it. Talk to more girls. Not only does this mean that you have options but the girls will most likely think they did something wrong to make u leave. The friend will keep coming back to you, you act uninterested (as you probably are), the point is that the target will be with her so by association she is coming back to you as well. At this point you can do whatever you want, I usually start dancing and when I get proximity IOIs I literally lift one finger and signal her to come and she does, remember women want to be ordered around. This is what I did with the girls in the example here (first post in the thread). Every time they leave for any reason find other girls (at this point there should be enough social proof in the room that a lot of girls will be into you).

The girls will probably fight over you for a while (also a good thing) and eventually the one you arent interested in will give up.

Also, always do the standard stuff that we do - neg, kino etc etc
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