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Author:  Nyseto [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 1:30 am ]
Post subject:  What would an alpha male do in this situation?
I've been a jerk to this girl and she blocked me on facebook. She's been telling her friends that I'm a dick, etc. Before that, I drew a portrait of her, gave her a rose made out of a napkin, etc. as just sweet things, NOT meant to be AFC. I was also too slow with her and she already hooked up with someone else but at least I came somewhat clean without giving myself away that I actually wanted her. One of her friends told me she said, "Yeah he's a jerk, I have no idea why he did all those things for me." She keeps twisting it around though. She first thought I drew her to get into her pants, then she thought that I'm a desperate senior going for freshman, and now she doesn't know what to think anymore.

I'm confused between 3 things. The next time I see her, should I apologize? Should I ignore? Or should I just say hi? And about that third one...I gave her a nickname long ago which was "Sunshine" because of the way she would blush, so maybe saying, "Hey Sunshine" would be better?

She called me names on my facebook and my female friends cussed her out. After she blocked me, I texted her saying to just be friends and call it a truce but she didn't reply. Then I said to her, "Once a bitch always a bitch. With you I had to break my gentleman rule."
Author:  Shawoo [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 3:22 pm ]
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She seems to be very immature and just playing headgames dude, she is a freshman, most aren't mature enough yet for a real relationship which seniors want so I suggest you find another girl. Think of this girl as like a long term crash and burn, move on to the next set
Author:  Cosmo Kramer [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 6:01 am ]
Post subject:  AH (Asshole) remark her and move on
Tell her and all her friends "I wish to thank you for you're well thought out complaints and i am pleased to say that you're insult has not been noted, and has been lovingly shoved back up you're stuck up ass" and move on and game other chicks in that school of yours
Author:  Legit_ [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 10:49 am ]
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This is the second time this guy has posted this question...
Author:  urielpie [ Wed Nov 17, 2010 6:29 am ]
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someone lock this post. this guys a fucking retard. hes also a dbag and was a complete dick from the last post he wrote. move on dude shes obviously won and destroyed you
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Nov 18, 2010 3:03 pm ]
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someone lock this post. this guys a fucking retard. hes also a dbag and was a complete dick from the last post he wrote. move on dude shes obviously won and destroyed you
+1

Nyseto man, you need to work on just being a fun, sociable guy, do some activities, make some friends, get comfortable with yourself and have some inner confidence and self-respect.

You can sit here and tell us that you drew her a portrait and gave her a rose not to be an AFC but because you just throw out value left and right all day, but the fact is, you DID do it to get in her pants and you DID fuckin creep her out. When she rejected you, you acted like a reactive little asshole and called her a bitch. You're the bitch. Forget her, move on, and CHILL THE FUCK OUT.

Next time you see a girl you like, have a normal goddam conversation with her. Talk about classes, or mutual friends, invite her to the mall with you or something. Save the present giving shit for when you've been going out 6 months and she shaved her pussy in the shape of a heart for your birthday.
Author:  Keera [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:38 pm ]
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After she blocked me, I texted her saying to just be friends and call it a truce but she didn't reply. Then I said to her, "Once a bitch always a bitch. With you I had to break my gentleman rule.
First off, don't ever call girls names. She can be the most vile, disgusting, ugly, and insensible creature you've ever met, but that still doesn't give you the right to call her a bitch. Why? Because by doing so, you're giving your power to her. You want to be alpha? Don't call people names- it reveals frustration, and that's weakness. There's not much you can do to salvage this situation except to apologize, but what you should have done- and what you need to do in the future- is to, as previous posters have already mentioned, chill the fuck out. You need to be indifferent and cool, even if she does call you out on your shit and ignores your text.

Best of luck.
Author:  Cherry37 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 12:43 am ]
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Your probably posting this multiple times because you need help, freshmen are odd beings. Don't worry about it, move on. Learning opportunity. I had a freshman that did things to me that I thought only Jenna Jameson did. I never told her but I was in love. Needless to say I played it that way and she avoids me now. I had another freshman, that I was toying with, she came to my house uninvited got naked, literally, and told me she wanted me to be her first. I didn't want that and well, she doesnt talk to me now. Just learn from mistakes and move on. I know what I did now but at the time I was not getting what I wanted.
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