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| Author: | repute Venal [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 12:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Eye contact and body language (adv) |
hey guys i went out last night and had heaps of fun since i cant dance due to my knee, i had to adapt and change my game. After a few hours i began to notice things here they are. okay so eye contact we all know its important in gaming and is the FIRST sign of attraction. but the question remains how to fully embrace it and use it to the best of it's abilities. here is a small list 1. hold her gaze dont look away. this is a rule many people know of but for me i like to add a little bit of flare to it. for me the first time i keep the contact and smile. i look again (to see if she will) this time i hold it for a bit before looking to the side. Why? simple i want her to know i am slightly attracted to her. this gives her the chance to approach me. many guys fail here simply because when u make eye contact and the HB moves within 1-5 metres of you SHE WANTS TO BE GAMED!!. This is her way of saying here i am but i am scared to approach. 2. keep looking back not like a constant stare like a weirdo but maybe every minute or so mostly u will find her looking at you. when this happens make sure you appear and/or having FUN!! i cant stress that enough. laugh and joke with your mates. why keep looking back isnt that what an AFC does? well my friends its simple your BUILDING attraction! you can even do this when gaming another set!!. 3. look at what way she turns her head when u make eye contact does she look to the floor? if so then dont bother approaching she isnt keen. however does she look to the side? if so she maybe keen and most probably is. If she turns away to the side and figits with her hair or clothing then she is KEEN and approach ASAP. so here is how i used it. i was in the side bar next to club 58 it was around 3am and there was 4 guys to 1 girl not even kidding. a 5 set were 20 metres ahead of me. i make eye contact with my target and smiled she turned away. as i spoke to my mate i began to keep looking back and found her looking at me. after a while she came and sat 1 table away from me which only her female friends sat down there was 3 of them. me: (turns around) hey excuse me are we in year 7 still? the entire sets looked confused me: well all the girls on one table and all the guys on another is primary school all over again. (they all laughed as i did) come over here and introduce yourselves. without any hesitation the girl i had been making eye contact with gets up and sits DIRECTLY across fro me. (this is a sign of interest as she wishes to know me more and her body language was all on me. the entire set moved to sit with me and my mate. target: hi my name is ......... this is an IOI as well me: nice to meet u ..... i am (my real name) i offer a hand shake she goes to shake my hand i laugh and say what are you 12? give me a hug. which she complied with instantly. so we make idle chat i run some of my game (i will get to this later on) then a guy ( a friend apparently) requested she leaves. i locked eyes with her and gave her a faint smile. she declined his offer to leave and assured him she would talk to him later. she then sat on the table with her back to me talking to her mate. so i grabbed her and pulled her so she was laying down her head on my crutch and said hey fancy seeing u here. we laughed hard. okay so i am going to break it off here and get back to it later. next thing body language. we MUST all know how to use it. here are some of my theories. 1. play around with your body language give her some mixed signals. like leaning in for a few seconds then relaxing on your chair, figit with your hair or clothes. why? because you want the power she cant read you, this will weaken bitch shields trust me. this works because she cant tell by your body language if YOU are keen. so YOU can just read hers. big advantage, especially for people who cant use body language well. 2. this is without a doubt my favourite part of the game, tell her about her body language accuse her of being too keen because she is leaning in ect. this is always fun and makes her feel defenseless another huge advantage however the strongest point is, you make flirting comfortable,fun and enjoyable. its no longer going to be hidden she will act fair more keen and you will save time a huge bonus really. 3. Kino heavily yes this is body language at its best. touch her arm as u talk accuse her of having hair extensions and inspect her hair and laugh make it fun not SERIOUS. 4. for a higher chance of kiss closing make sure your above her, eg being on a stage or her laying on you. i have no idea why this works but if i dance on stage my k closes sky rocket. okay so back to my game from earlier. my target was leaning in. me: ease up turbo target: what do you mean? me: well your body language tells me your a little keen on myself (laughs here) target: how so me:cause your leaning in target: (she smiles) me: also your holding my eye contact thats the first sign of attraction you know (laughs again) target oh really? (in a seductive voice) well your doing it to you know. me: oh i know this is extremely important why? because we both know we are attracted, we dont need to play little games with each other she is now more relaxed, confident and happier. also it speeds up the game TIME IS PUSSY remember. now back to when she is on my lap laying on the table as well as me. me: (i build sexual tension by just looking into her eyes saying nothing then lean in) bam k close simple as.so now what? well guys you wanna fuk girls you game right tell her she is a great kisser this will boost her moral and WILL result in more kissing, assuming your good yourself. so cheers guys for reading hope this post was of value. and thanks for those that read all this |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 2:47 am ] |
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Lol,solid approach & opener with the set at the table(where you asked them about 7 all over again). |
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| Author: | bacano [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 8:22 pm ] |
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you did well man. I just wish I had friends to go out with and try some of this shit. :\ |
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| Author: | repute Venal [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 4:48 am ] |
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i founded my lair from meeting up with people on this site i now have 130 members on my own forum and its quite an active community. we all have hands and a brain. dont wish make it happen!!! pua mindset should always be turned on aim for higher and better things!! also cheers man i like hearing feed back hope it helped you out |
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